Girls: Have you ever fallen for a friend?

[Anonymous]

If you have done, what was it that made you fall for them?

[jolee1]

Yes in a way I have but everytime it comes to surface I push it to the back of mind and say NO! I keep thinking we will end up with each other but at this stage no.

the difference is he is a guy I work with, who I'm really good friends have know for several years. and I had a similar situation at my old work and dated the guy for a couple of years and it ended horribly.

so in my case the work and previous situtation plays in on the factor had it been someone I was friends with than year possibly.

something in the friendship must change for her to see you differently. Perhaps you look differently, out of nowhere confidence comes along, or perhaps you suddenly have heaps of girls over you and she now sees subconciously on a basic human level that you are desirable and she may think how did I not see that all along and suddenly she will become jealous. She will know that she is getting jealous and a thought will cross her maybe I like this guy.

i hope that helps. I just posted a question too if you have a free second this is the link to it maybe you can enlighten me link

[alchemy12]

I've never developed romantic feelings for a guy that I was initially platonic with. But I have fallen for a friend I was always somewhat attracted to although we spent time together just as friends. We knew each other and were friends for at least a year before he made the first move. One night we were hanging out and he just turned to me and said he'd had the best time with me that night, and he always did or something like that, then kept calling me and asked me out.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but after he liked me for a year. I think you start acting like you like someone (to be nice to that person), you actually start feeling the emotions that go with those words/actions and start genuinely liking them.

That's what happened in my case and we're still dating after 4 years :)

[bh6676r942]

Do you mean take the fall for what they did or fall in love with them?

[Asker]

The latter.

[bh6676r942]

No but I've had a crush on some girl I'm friends with

[lollipopsforyou]

The way he treated me. Besides, he knew everything I liked, and knew me better than anyone, so in a way he knew what to do to make me fall for him, I think. And yeah, he turned me on so much... great kisser too.

[DeeDeeGrl]

Y he is always really nice and sweet and when your upset he knows I'm upset he is sensitive that way for a hockey player. I find if you want to make your girl (or guy gay is good too) happy show her/him your there for them and be nice and sensitive I don't mean breakdown and cry with them but show them you feel their pain/happiness that's why I love my man.

[highschooler17]

Yes, I fell in love with my guy friend for his personality/looks. However he knows I like him. He said I'm pretty/perfect but he isn't looking for a relationship but said I'd be fun to date/hook up with . We hooked up(just to second base) and recently things aren't going well anymore. :(

[musicbrain5]

I did, but he fell for me first and I think that's when I started to realize that I liked him as well. I suddenly saw him as good boyfriend material.

[justbanANNAz]

yeh.. my guy best friend 3 years ago

what was it? my stupidity

[Anonymous]

I'm falling for him now.. And he has a crush on me! But has a girlfriend :(

[Anonymous]

Yes. Personality/looks.

[Anonymous]

No and I don't plan on it

[Anonymous]

I have not