Have you ever had a crush on a friend?

[PrincessGrail]

Did you tell them? How did they react?

[eden94]

Yes at a friends house when I was drunk.
It was like a fairytale because he admitted he had strong feelings as well and what followed was me staying the weekend and having 2 days of continuous love making while we released about 3yrs worth of built up sexual frustration and hidden emotions/attraction. Best 2 days of my life.

[PrincessGrail]

Awesome!!

[Brookie1212]

Yup, my best friend. Now he’s my boyfriend❤️

[PrincessGrail]

You have a cool name.

[Brookie1212]

Thank you!❤️

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

Yes, many times. I usually tell them my intentions early on. From there they can decide what they want from me.
If the feelings aren't reciprocated, I know to move on. Which is awesome because then I have a friend!

[NervousGuy95]

I had and never told her... We slept in bed together but I didn't have courage to make a move

[PrincessGrail]

Were you hard?

[NervousGuy95]

Yes, I even touched her ass pretending it was accidently

[PrincessGrail]

That’s kinda hot. But then again, I find frustration hot.

[NervousGuy95]

We are still friends, and we both have bf/gf but I still really like her and regret that I was such a coward

[PrincessGrail]

I’m sorry. Feel bad for you.

[NervousGuy95]

What about you?

[NervousGuy95]

Thanks for MHO 😘

[jennifer_bloom]

I have but they were borderline friends - friends I wasn't too close to - one kept his distance cause he got hit on way too often - the other guy kept his distance cause he didn't think we were theologically compatible - the third guy was a player so we were both disinterested in pursuing things - the last guy became my temporary lover for a while - don't know the status of our relationship at this point

[Iwant2kno]

Yes I have and yes I’ve told him. His reaction was very mature and he didn’t let that affect our friendship.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Once, but I never told them and eventually it passed.

[SA9946]

Yes of course. But it was complicated. I thought he liked me back but it wasn't romantic and definitely didn't border on what I was feeling. Later on he said that he has been physically attracted to me but he didn't act upon it because he knew they were not genuine. It was palpable to him we would not work as a couple though it was hard for me make peace with. I asked him and he was like I can't hurt and lose you. I want you in my life so let's not bring those emotions into our equation. Even though it was difficult, it was big deal for me because he has a reputation of being a playboy. So for him to say this spoke volumes of his love for me. Now we are really close friends. We haven't done anything physically though.

[PrincessGrail]

Awesome 😊

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, I wouldn’t call her a friend but a classmate of mine in middle school. Since our last names were similar, alphabetically, we were always together when it came to lockers, sitting in church, standing in line, etc. This girl was pale, like a vampire, with brown, somewhat Auburn-colored hair. I think part of why I had a crush on her was because she was really white and I was tan and deep down in my homo sapien brain, this contrast was great for mating. Anyways, one day I decided to write a note to her and post it inside her locker. I did so, and once she saw it, she laughed and showed everyone. Everyone now knew that I had a crush on her, but I suspected people already knew that. I really did have a crush on this girl for a bit, but then I changed crushes to multiple girls in my grade lol. I only ever wrote a note to that one girl though, no one else.

[natebragz]

keep going bro... the way you're going you'll get wifey material

[MedievalDestiny]

I had a crush on my best friend’s sister. I’ve always had a thing for little sisters apparently and it ended very poorly. My friend was upset because she harbored feelings for me. And her sister never gave me the time of day out of loyalty to her sister. Just bad all around

[PrincessGrail]

That sucks

[MedievalDestiny]

Aye. Oh well. Tomorrow is another day :)

[PrincessGrail]

Scarlett O’Hara

[MedievalDestiny]

Indeed. And sometimes past experiences over time can be just that: gone with the wind.

[PrincessGrail]

I’m kinda half Scarlett, half Melanie

[MedievalDestiny]

But I bet all beautiful

[PrincessGrail]

Thanks 😊

[Adi95]

I had crush on her for few years. She knew that. We were friends for more than 5 years. She rejected me politly. Later I changed my appearance the ahe crushed on me. She imagined kids with me. But suddenly I felt nothing. I lost all interest. She was like sister to me. I rejected her politly. Now we are almost enemies. She do not want to talk with me. She just looks down when I meet her accidentally. She do not want to say hi to me. I really miss her. She miss me too I know. I tried to talk with her but she was mean and rude. Be careful and mature pls

[iluvtoknow]

Even if she doesn't want to, get her to talk to you and you talk to her. Crushes are too trivial to lose a friendship over.

[Adi95]

@iluvtoknow I know. Now we live in different towns. I met her accidentally six months after we started to distance from each other. She almost got heart attack when she saw me. She was rude and mean to me. She tried to finish coversation asap. I know she is hurted and she just pretend her hate. She is one immature and proud person. I am hurted too...

[KimKardashiansFeet]

Multiple times, i think the first one laughed nervously and I never got an answer from him although people around me told me multiple times that he liked me back. Second one rejected me and felt bad for it. Third one is my current boyfriend, if I didn't confess to him we would never have gotten together because of how much he fears rejection.

[Jjpayne]

I have never told them but many friends that were girls. I just hesitated because I did not want them to feel uncomfortable, I kind of wanted them to reach out before I did to show interest but I probably should have been more aggressive to just ask them out for a coffee

[DizzyDesii]

First guy was back in 2002. Told his sis to tell him how i felt in 2006. She totally exaggerated the matter and he's been dodging me ever since. 😂 damn i just wanted closure.

Yea ever since, i usually am not the first to tell a guy i like them. And if i do, its only cause they heard through a friend first. So i usually lie and say “i USED to like you” to protect myself. And then they get all mad curious like “why dont u still like me” 😂

[MrCommodore]

Yes, in adult life I've probably had 3 secret crushes, and I never told any of them. I suspect only one of them actually knew (I became better at hiding it), Girl 1 was 5 or 6 years older, I was 21-22, a bit too young for her at the time.

When I say crush, I mean that I was very attracted to them (physically & personality), considered them worthy relationship material.

I think the problem was that I grew to really like these girls to the point where it was then awkward to flirt.

[beebella]

Yeah, a lot of my crushes have been on guys I was friends with. I didn't tell any of them, but in fourth grade, one of my girl friends told my crush that I had a crush on him right in front of me. He asked me if it was true and I said yes. Since he never responded after that, I assume he didn't like me back.

[Tasmith95]

It depends on how close you are to them and what they mean to you. I mean if you dont want to lose them or risk the friendship i would just leave it be. But he or she who dares wins is the saying and it could pay off 😂 but real life rarely works like it does in the movies

[monkeynutts]

Ambivalence, and sometimes chuffed, but they don't feel the same way, it's strange, there are one night stands and the sex is great, and there are girls who love you till the end of time, then there are the girls you can never get. They ain't gonna take a bar of it.

[Jerre]

Yes, a sister of a fella I knew. I knew her fairly well, then asked her out. We went to dinner, a movie then back to my house. We fucked and 69d the entire night. A great date. Went out with her severalmore times over the next 2 weeks before she returned to college.

[21browngirl]

I had a crush on my friends elder brother. apparently he is my first kiss as well

[PrincessGrail]

Awwwww <3

[Drowningkingfish]

Yes very much so, but I never told her, I was friends with her from a young age and she disappeared a couple of years ago, I was kind of traumatised at first but have mostly moved on knowing that was the last of her.

[sexphobe]

Oof yes its an awkward situation bc i met him on tinder & we fucked and now we’re friends and i may have caught feelings and I don't know where i stand with him now & dont wanna say anything about it aAAAA

[ConfusednClueless]

Every guy I have dated was my friend first. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[PrincessGrail]

Awesome :-)

[tom1810]

This never happened to me, but it happened to my best friend. He was persistant for a year, because she never wanted it. When we graduated, her prom date cancelled on her, and he didn't want anyone except her. After that night they started dating. They are married and have 2 kids now 😊