How would u describe your personality? what are your positive and negative traits?

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WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Positive: I like to think I’m a generally good guy, in a broad context. I think I have a pretty kind spirit. I’m quick with a joke, and people seem to think I’m pretty funny, so I can entertain a crowd to some degree. My default demeanor is very chill. I’m loyal to friends and family. I’m very polite and considerate to others in my public dealings. I’m well-mannered, and I think most people would tell you I’m a gentleman. To have standardized test scores from the 1980s and 1990s tell it, I’m very smart, I scored in the 90th+ percentile in everything, up in the high 90s for verbal stuff (I’m not as much of a math guy, haha, but still pretty solid). I won’t be on any magazine covers, but I think I look pretty good compared to the average person strolling down the street. I have good self-discipline, when I want to, haha. I’m cool to humans, but I love animals the most. I’m pretty agreeable, so I think I’m easy to hang around with. I don’t know, I seem to be pretty well-liked (not here, lmfao, but IRL), so I think I’m a pretty solid guy, overall.

Negative: The big one is my temper. I go from “chillin’ “ to “killin’ “ in a split second, usually because of perceived disrespect. It’s not a common situation for me usually, but I’ve just had jobs (bar bouncer) and activities (football, hockey) that always seem to invite these issues. Like if you approach me in a way that suggests that you view me as a non-threat who can’t/won’t kick your ass, we’re going to have a HUGE problem. I don’t expect people to cower as I walk by, but if you get in my face and start talking wild shit, that signals to me that you aren’t taking me seriously, and that’s when I lose it. And when I lose it, it’s EXPLOSIVE. It’s not just like, “whoa, that dude got pretty mad”, it’s like “holy hell…do we start by cleaning up the blood first? Or sweeping up all the shattered glass?” It’s…. it’s a scene😅 I am a PSYCHO when I get pissed, I don’t have any “medium” setting for anger. It’s a love/hate thing for me. I don’t like causing a scene, but I love that no one who witnessed it ever acts up around me ever again. I like that people know I’m a live wire, I guess, because it reduces the drama in my life. Women are tough though, I can’t do anything about them, lmfao, this only works on dudes.

Besides being a lunatic when I’m mad…I don’t have a shred of ambition. I can go to work, put in long hours, etc, but I hate it, just fundamentally, that that’s expected of us in life. I’m not at all lazy, I’m actually not working these past couple years to take care of my elderly father, and I’m the busiest unemployed guy I know, haha. And I’m always at the gym or playing hockey, I’m not sitting around on my ass playing video games. I haven’t even upgraded since XBox 360, lmao, I play like 6 hours per year. But if we’re talking about having a “career”…. I’ve just realized that system doesn’t work for me. Luckily I have some decent inheritance money coming my way and I might be able to avoid being a real world person going forward, haha, but this whole Western society capitalist system where we’ve decided 1/3 of our lives needs to be spent being productive workers for the greater glory of the national economy, and at best, you can make a ton of money but it requires you to basically miss the prime years of your life wrapped up in pursuing high levels of education and climbing the career ladder. That’s just not for me, and it shouldn’t have to be. I’m a good worker, but I can be difficult if I don’t understand or agree with what I’m being told to do, or why I’m doing it. I don’t take orders like that.

I can be aloof and arrogant at times. If I’m dragged somewhere and I don’t think the scene and the people are cool enough, I can kind of clam up and my girlfriend says I look like I don’t want to be there. She’s not totally wrong, haha. Like I said, I won’t be on any magazines, but I’m still pretty vain, if I’m being honest. I’m very keyed in on my appearance, and if you gave me truth serum, I’d probably say I wish I was in the company of more beautiful people. The “main character” in me thinks I should be poppin’ bottles with models, lmao. My friends in college all played football, so I’m used to walking into places and people turning their heads to see us, and hanging out with some of the hottest girls at our school. Now I’m living normal suburban life, and I’m not in LA or NYC or Miami, so I’m just like “where’s the fanfare, and where are the not-ugly people?” lmao. That’s in idiotic way to think, but I’m just being honest.

I guess the other big one, more personal in nature, is procrastination. If it’s not fun, I just can’t bring myself to do it. I need to be chasing fun at all times. I do my taxes like once every four years, once the IRS letters start coming. It probably costs me money in late fees, I have to do it through a tax preparer, which costs money, too. Like I just filed all my taxes since 2019 just last week…. and not only was that for money I wouldn’t get back, I wasn’t even getting stimulus checks during the pandemic because I hadn’t filed my taxes. These people are like “Steve, in addition to your tax return checks, HELP US GIVE YOU FREE MONEY.”, and I was just like “Nahhhhh, too much effort.”🤦‍♂️ One thing I don’t accept in life is “authority.” Totally imaginary concept that we just choose to honor, but I just won’t. So the best way to get me to not do something is to tell me that I have to do it. I stand by that, but outwardly, others would probably consider that a negative trait.

Benjiman19 · Accepted Answer

A good trait I have is that I can make just about anyone smile with the goofy ass dumb shit I do or say.

Bad trait, I'm overly sexual with most things. Probably go a few yards over someone's comfort line throughout the day. Which can make others angry with me or have them stay silent the rest of the day. However, these aren't any actions I do. These are just thoughts that come out of my mouth without thinking through it first.

Another good trait. I'll be there for anyone whenever they need help, encouragement or a deep conversation.

Sour-rose · Accepted Answer

Too damn kind. But that's why there's sour petals around me. Positive: I'll share my food with you if there's enough. Negative: If i hurt your feelings, i'm likely not to care.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

Positive? Friendly, witty, non judgmental Negative? Overthinker, too emotional, negative thinker

syncheart · Answer

I don't know how to describe my personality. I think my personality sucks, because I'm constantly analyzing everything and feeling hurt from the way I get treated. Also back in 2001 a psychologist diagnosed me with a mixed personality disorder. That means that I have some negative personality traits from all the different disorders. I didn't choose this problem for myself! Anyways, the positive side of me, I always try to be kind, considerate, honest, and generous.

The-Stud · Answer

I am a stud 😎 (kidding)
Positive would be that I am nice to everyone and ironically that's the negative too

Sometimes I am so nice to people that they later make me regret it , I don't feel like talking to them anymore

LiamJHayden · Answer

Positive. I am friendly with anyone who has not given me a reason to not be. Negative: I am far too quick at pulling the trigger to end a romance.

Agape93 · Answer

Volatile.

I'm capable of great love, passion, dedication, determination, loyalty and protection. But I'm also very capable of unnecessary levels of aggression, violence, distrust, anger and a near total lack of empathy.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

All ima say is that I'm just a weird person, it's the best ways to describe it

Anonymous · Answer

I am loyal. I think that's what my friends appreciate most about me. But I'm also a bit arrogant and hate being wrong.

LavLavLuv · Answer

I’m friendly and calm But I’m very picky with who I wanna interact with

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