Are fat people a turnoff for you for dating?

[Anonymous]

There’s no judgment here. I’m bored and I’m curious, as I am about many things.

[aceleon]

the girl in this photo is overweight too but i could give 10 years of my life to make her a regular friends with benefits (not for simping but because my life span hasno value for me, i rather not get old, see my loved ones die, get unhealthy and weak and bored with everything)

[AaronKrieger]

No, it is definitely not a turnoff.

I don't identify my relationships by their body type, so I see her the same as any other girl. Sure, there can be pros/cons to body types, but for me I like them all.

However, I do find it a turnoff health wise if they're obese, but it's not a deal breaker unless it's an extreme end of it. Same for girls that are too skinny or barely eat.

[Anonymous]

No because "fat" doesn't make you a good or bad person, or worthy or not worthy of dating, you do that on your own. As with literally everyone else I date, if you're a good guy, and you like me for me, we'll start from there and see what happens.

[Sirenboobzilla]

It's not my ideal preference for a partner, but it's not a turn off. Same as with a fit man, I need there to be more under the surface

[Asker]

I’m the same. I would marry a guy with a bit of a gut if I loved him and had some attraction to the rest of him. It’s not a dealbreaker for me.

[Avicenna]

It's not my preference, but I do date women who are overweight (but not obese). There's a lot more to a woman than looks.

[TrueConfection]

A dad bod is fine, but morbidly obese would be a turn off. I prefer someone who is active.

[sawno]

Yeah in the physical sense of the word. I'm simply not attracted by it and in case I come across a porn video where the girl is fat I also get turned off. Its not a judgmental thing for me, just my body responding that way.

[Asker]

Fair enough 😊

[Bearrrrr]

I love to workout and I’m all about eating healthy. I would date a fat person because I could see past that. But would probably go for someone who isn’t fat

[Charliefretz329]

Yes, fat usually means lazy. It infers poor hygiene and poor health.


I expect the same care to reflect in the relationship.


Granted there are always exceptions. But if I work hard to take care of my health and body then I can’t understand why my partner wouldn’t as well.

[Nikki1989]

Not at all. I would rather have fat than bones.

[lovetohate28]

No i dont think of it in that way. . personally i dont mind most body types. It has more to do with personality for me. When it comes to love i just want someone i can have a good conversation with for the rest of our lives. If it just so happens we can't keep our hands off of eachother so be it lol

[nonyabeez-wax]

Yeah, but I have no room to talk right now. I have to lose weight myself.

I blame noone for looking at me and going "ew" right now. :/

[Wood3nWhal3]

I didn't start losing weight until I saw myself in the mirror and hated myself enough to do something about it.

[IslaTheWitch]

Gaining or loosing the weight is not a problem with a proper support or motivation. So I would focus on their mind and personality

[Billlewis]

No, to the contrary, an attractive, plus sized woman who has a really big, fat ass is my definition of perfection.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Depends how they look, there's curvy women people consider fat but got some attractive curves, I guess what fat you are talking about I guess.

[DopeTurtle]

It depends on how big and their mindset about it.


If it’s a bit overweight or chubby? I’m perfectly happy with it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah I lead an active life and whoever I'm with would have to as well.

[BourbonAndBacon]

Definitely a turnoff. I eat healthy and try to stay in shape and I can't have a partner who isn't the same.

[shanshu]

To be honest I prefer bigger women, as long as they don't act like a arogent Karen type of person then I am more that willing to give them a chance

[Miristheiss]

Yes. I find obesity physically unattractive. I am drawn to fit women.

[ColHathi]

No. I might not be immediately physically attracted to them of course, but I'm not gonna be dating them for their body.

[AmeerX]

Slightly fat is no issue with me as long as other things checks out :). Not American fat lol, that's too much for me

[Sparkie460]

It's not a turn off. I never went by the size of her body, I went by her personality and the size of her heart.

[nron97]

chubby is okay. I don't know the exact cuttoff point term.

[LiamJHayden]

My issue with dating obese women is that my lifestyle it too active.

[Anonymous]

just predicting that the answer would be yes for many based off the way society views fat people

[scooogy]

I don't judge them for their body, but they shouldn't grow lazy due to that.

[Carly2005]

It not that fat or skinny it how people treat others.

[Anonymous]

Yes not gonna lie. The more round she looks the less attracted I am. Could be a great person though

[Thestupidusername]

The fatter the better

[Anonymous]

If they have a pretty face on contrary, a turn on

[TheUniqueOne96]

It depends how fat they are.

[getwiththepg]

Personally, yes. I likes nice petite thing

[Ironic_Method]

Yes. I prefer my partners to be fit.

[Anonymous]

yea i'm not attracted to overweight guys

[DextroShade]

It is 100% a deal-breaker.

[Nifrayu]

Generally speaking yes.

[Wood3nWhal3]

A little, but not for sex though.

[Tomisworthless]

Are unattractive men?

[Anonymous]

Fat, no
Obese , yes

[LazerBean]

Yes.

[_piotr]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Nah. Don’t mind something to grab onto.

[LemiaOfThunder]

I've dated two bbws

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[Gezbelle]

Yes they are

[Cheerfull009]

No elephant