Were you ever worried your partner wouldn’t accept you?

[Sasha0426]

Like, when you two first start going out, did you have doubts they wanted to go further? Were you surprised that they wanted a relationship with you?
I just want to know everyone’s stories when you first met your partner and if you had ‘what ifs.’

[Finchie40]

Yes , especially nowadays , mainly because most people assume the worst case scenario and think everyone is just out to hook up and nothing more. so yes this happens to most of us , it’s mainly because we don’t truly know what someone’s true intentions are. The last girl I hit it off with was shocked I showed up with flowers the next day lol

[CarnaGirl18]

My boyfriend and I met online. Yes, I did at first because I have a rare syndrome called Russell Sliver syndrome which makes my bones fail to thrive so I basically look like an 8 to 13-year-old even though I'm an adult. it was hard letting him see me full naked let him see what I looked fully like before we met in person to just so he didn't get surprised and know what he's up against when we're out in public.
But he just accepted me for what I am and I'm greatful😊😊

[IslaTheWitch]

If we are going out together, it means we are somehow past this phase. Of course, some additional information can appear during conversations, but I'm not afraid of them.

What I'm afraid of most is if I'm attractive to this man. If we date, it means I passed this test :P

[sawno]

With my last partner not at all because we originally didn't aim to be partners, the distance was troublesome so it was meant to just be some long distance companionship during lockdown. It grew so organically that by the time I asked her to be my girlfriend I already knew months in advance she'd say yes, but we wanted to save that moment until we were in person.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope. My ex was the one who chased me hard and was all head over heels in love.

[Mark987]

I was surprised with one of my relationships. I thought she was way out of my league, and that she would not give me any attention, However after a month of talking on ( MSN messenger) yes it was that long ago lol.. we hit it off.. we only dated for 2 months... but after that it gave me the confidence not to think like that. Always speak and act with confidence.

[TenderFantasy]

Nope. I know that I am beautiful so yeah. I never had trouble finding interested men in the past, why would this one have been different? I know my worth.

[Sasha0426]

But, did you find one worth having a relationship with? One that will stick by your side through thick and thin?

[Anonymous]

Not really, but it was easy because he liked me a lot from the start and kept liking me more the longer we were together. I've pushed him away a few times before but he pursued me, i fell in love and now im the happiest I've been with a guy. Its the most amazing feeling being myself and knowing im still loved.

[Shedzij567]

Yes in my case I didn't know how he would accept my families nonchalant behaviour when it comes to nudity, I didn't even know what to dress when we went out. Turned out he really liked when I was dressing The way I used to

[ProbablyClueless]

Kind of... I think it's normal to be a little bit nervous revealing personal things. If you are comfortable with who you are as a person, you will be bolder in revealing those details.

[JacobJordan]

Oh most definitely. My now wife is very very attractive and I am average maybe a little above average. She also is very outgoing where as I am rather quiet and solemn.

[exitseven]

When we first met she wanted nothing to do with me. After a while she changed her mind. She moved out of state but I still made the effort to visit her regularly. She was impressed by that

[Joshydavid25]

No, she made me seem like the most wonderful thing when we first got together.. Maybe later on, I did start to worry though..

[Cute_potato01]

Yes trust is hurt after being broken many times

[NathanDavis]

well, no...

they approached me first, lol

[dudeinohio]

I always get these doubts. But that's the pessimist in me. Still, my last 3 first dates all ended up. in long term relationships.

[Twalli]

I was surprised she found me attractive, I don't find myself desirable in looks.

[clubboss]

No i knew she would be equally enthusiastic about it.

[Ironic_Method]

No. I can be awfully charming if I want to be :P

[sheikalana]

Yes, I've thought about it.