You would have this kind of relationship?

[Anonymous]

A relationship where your partner must be 100% faithful to you, yet you are free to go out and have relationships with other people whenever you want, and both are aware of it.

[Ironic_Method]

This is close to the arrangement I have with my wife and it works well. It's not a zero sum game.

[Asker]

Are you free or is your wife

[Ironic_Method]

I am.

[Asker]

So you can have relationships with other women and your wife is faithful to you

[Ironic_Method]

Yes. There are a few stipulations, but it's something we both enjoy. Sometimes we date together.

[Asker]

Nice bro

[Emmagirly98]

Fuck no LOL, sounds controlling AF. If its an open relationship both parties get to have stuff on the side. If its closed both parties are 100% faithful. I do not agree to the one sidedness freedom. Nope.

[Asker]

But what if it's his fetish?

[Emmagirly98]

IMO- If that's his fetish that is his problem lol. If you tell him you don't want this he will either respect that and resent you OR cheat on you. It is not a fetish either, some men are just pigs and don't believe in monogamy - in that case they need to stay single or find someone who wants that lifestyle. It honestly just sounds disturbing, he wants to sleep around but keep you locked down. I would be leaving his ass asap. I totally respect fetishes (WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP) and would try just about anything but the second it starts involving stepping out of the relationship I am done. Imagine having a family one day with a man like that, I certainly wouldn't want my daughters growing up with that image of love... yikes. You deserve better.

[Asker]

No, no, I mean that it would be his fetish for him to be locked up and faithful while you would be free, you know?

[Emmagirly98]

I mean, if he wanted you to hook up with other people and you wanted to go out and do that as well I suppose, but again EW, not my kind of relationship and seems icky to raise a family that way one day. That being said the world is ever changing and everyone has their own take on that stuff - it depends on what the two people inside the relationship want. Have you talked to your partner?

[Asker]

I understood. And no, I don't have a partner, I just would like to know people's opinions on this haha

Thanks for sharing what you think

[sheikalana]

No, I'm not interested in dating multiple people at the same time. I'm fine with staying with my partner only.

[Billlewis]

Yes, but I prefer being the one who's 100% faithful and exclusive to her, while she enjoys the freedom to date other guys whenever she wants.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[HelpfulWoman]

Easy no, who wants a weak cuck?