Is playing a game like Winked cheating?

[Anonymous]

Winked is a romance simulation game where it can get kind of saucy and has sex scenes in it. I don't think it is but some people on Tiktok are saying it is cheating.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's a tough call. On one hand, it's just a game and not real people right? But I can see how some partners might not love the idea of their person getting turned on by fake characters.

A couple things to think about:

- How explicit are the scenes really? Is it just like kissing or are we talking full on XXX stuff? That makes a difference.

- How would your guy feel about it? If you think he’d be insecure or angry finding out, then it's probably not worth risking drama over a game.

- Would you be cool with him playing a super sexy romance sim too? Could go both ways.

- Are you spending a ton of time immersed in the game world instead of giving her attention? Priorities matter.

If it was me, I'd maybe run it by my girlfriend openly and honestly, and be willing to compromise based on her comfort level. Communication is key, ya know?

At the end of the day it comes down to your relationship boundaries. As long as it's not affecting your real connection, it's probably just a game. But don't go behind his back - nothing good comes from secrecy.

[Asker]

That's so true. Thanks for your response! I would never play a game like that without consulting my boyfriend first. Just wanted to know if people thought of it as cheating like people on Tiktok do.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man don't even worry about what those tiktok people say, they just be looking for drama most the time. As long as you and your dude are open and honest with each other that's all that matters. Props to you for wanting to check with him first before playing - good communication is key in a relationship.

I'm sure if you explain it's just a fun silly game to you and nothing serious, he'd probably be cool with it. Maybe play one of the less steamy levels with him so he sees it ain't nothing to stress over. You guys seem to have a good thing going if you're thinking about how he'd feel - I'm sure he'll appreciate you wanting to include him instead of sneaking around. You got his trust and that's worth way more than what random internet folk think! Hope it all works out.

[Anonymous]

Only if physical contact comes into it.