In your opinion, what do you find attractive in a person?

[Teket]

Doesn't necessarily have to be in a potential S/O but just in general. What traits or qualities do you find attractive?

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Hey everyone, thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions. It was very lovely to read each and every post and it is very interesting to see what people find attractive overall.

[HawkPerception]

She has chemistry with me. In other words a lot of similarities. Similar: interests, views, the type of life we want, communication style, sexual desires, sense of humor, etc. Back when I was younger, I used to say that I preferred girls who were shy because I related to them being shy myself. I thought it would be more comfortable being around them. Over many years I've figured out, I prefer confident girls that know what kind of guy they want and aren't afraid to speak their mind. I'm older now and I don't like having to be patient and break the ice with shy girls 24/7 and take a year (exaggerating) before they're able to be comfortable with me. Being kind, considerate, compassionate, and empathetic are all extremely important traits as well. They should be kind to everyone they meet. Not just me. Obviously they should prioritize me though 😂And finally, physically I'm into slim and fit girls. I workout regularly and live an active lifestyle. I hike, bike, and rollerblade often. I play sports like soccer and volleyball. Once in a blue moon I go camping and kayaking. I would like a girl that's able to keep up with me physically and also care about her appearance.

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[1ash-Silver]

There are many things that are part of the list of what I love about a woman, I have not been with one but I will try 🙃.

1. Innocence, the woman that has not spent that much time with other guys.

2. A bit mean 😂, I do not understand why I like it.

3. Takes herself seriously and refuses to accept any disrespect.

4. Smiles 😊 .

5. Enjoys cooking 😋.

6. Can be vulnerable.

7. Ambitious.

8. Loving , she really loves her people and expresses it.

9. She takes her health seriously , proper hygiene.

10. She believes in God.

11. She prays.

12. She is a good example for younger girls.

13. She loves art.

14. She does not litter 🚮.

15. She is not putting up everything on social media.

[jennifer_bloom]

For me, the most attractive guy is a guy with good and honourable intentions. There was a guy that was not allowed to date me that would walk all the way across the room to laugh with me because he respected me and my laughter was his reward. A guy that genuinely cares about me and is gentle and protective and humble.

[Teket]

Making you laugh like that is wholesome! And I agree with you about it being attractive when someone is genuine like that!

[Dinklex3]

Self reflection, acknowledgment, when they know how to apologize, smiles, funny, when they like old people, and being genuine.

[Sonorous]

A good combination of facial harmony, symmetry, dimorphism, youthfulness, proper dentofacial growth, & skull robusticity.

[ChiTown33]

Compassion (a good heart) i've always said what i find most attractive is when i see a woman help someone when no one else is looking and she has nothing to gain by doing it. Loyalty, honesty, intelligence, humor, ambition, thriftiness with a generous spirit, good morals and values,

[Teket]

That's beautiful, thanks for sharing, I appreciate this answer so much :)

[Reemaa]

Physique:
Medium height: 168-183 cm
Skin tune: White 👨🏻‍🦰
Hair: blonde or dirty blonde
Eyes: Blue 🩵
Weight: just not fat


Personality:

• Generous
• Masculine: open the door for me, likes to pay things for me such as dinner, cook for me from time to time. Sexual orientation: straight.
• Adventurous
• Courageous
• Like to try new things
• Sensitive
• Kind
• Open minded, goal-oriented and always trying to be the best version of himself.
• Never chase on another woman while he is in a relationship
• Likes commitment and family 👪

[Djaay]

How's your luck so far?

[AlphaMale1]

Personality is #1. How well she takes care of herself including the less makeup the better is also close to the top. There are some things I never could put my finger on and yet, some unseen force draws me to her.
There is something to be said about how close two people vibrate at or close to the same frequency that has gained more traction lately. This is a very interesting topic as it just may finally explain what and how love at first site works. Even at my age! lol

[Forceinhand]

A deep mind, some intellect and not just a pretty face. The ability to hold a deep conversation. A girl who's emotionally stable who doesn't expect me to carry her baggage, had a couple of those in the past. Fun loving but also capable of being serious. Someone who's comitted to the long haul/marriage and aren't just looking for shallow relationships.

With friends I value loyalty and honesty. But I also value friends who are no nonsense and will tell me if I'm wrong about something rather than sticking by my side "just because".

[NamerOfStars]

The first thing I look for is anatomical correctness- and no, I don't mean genitals, I mean "does she have a heart, a brain, and a spine?". That kind of thing makes a person (regardless of gender) appealing to me in a variety of ways, beyond just sexual or romantic attraction.

[NathanDavis]

when they're smart and funny, interesting... love that witty humor as well as the playful one, definitely like a quicker mind

then there's that kind of confidence in those eyes... and I'm all done for, lol

[Rohaan2020]

Their behaviour… like how they treat others… and some people just have this personality you cannot ignore as in you just find it attractive and this i’m not just saying for the opposite gender only… sometimes i find a few men attractive as well because of their personality…( not attractive in sexual way) but i guess you know what i am saying

[whereismyjohnny]

Honesty, loyalty, intelligence, integrity, empathy, ambition.

[7Phoenix7]

A genuine person with a good heart 🩷

[Teket]

Love this! What about physical traits?

[Anonymous]

Intelligent girls who also have a passion for art, less superficial or materialistic not too traditional as I can already cook and clean very well. Physically I like blondes more with long hair (French/German/Dutch/Swede). My ideal girl will be a tall blonde scientist 😅. I am bringing almost the same qualities if not more.

[JTPeterson]

A good heart someone who is kind genuine and doesn’t judge other that is in my opinion the most attractive thing about any person

[robhazelnut]

Sweet, playful, non-demanding, intelligent, hard to trick, honest, healthy, brave, soft and strong.

[sheikalana]

Their sense of style, how good looking they are, confident and funny personality, mature and kind.

[bobalife]

Good heart. Genuine. Humor. Effort. Emotionally Supportive. Thoughtful. Intelligence. Ambitious.

[SphynxUK]

Dry humour and intelligence.
Physically, I’m partial to red hair, green eyes or a cleft chin 🤩

[Becky316]

For me, I saw his heart for others. Then I got to know him more and it just kept getting better and better.

[Screenwriter]

Too easy! Sense of humor, easygoing personality, intelligence, sharp wit.

[EmpressAJ]

A good sense of humor , personality , manners , morales , deep convo , good physique , faith etc
I could keep going but ima leave it here 😂

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[antelope51]

Wit and intelligence.

[Teket]

Makes sense! What about physical traits?

[antelope51]

This is one of those sapio-sexual disconnects between me and the rest of the world. I have never seen the importance of the superficial. If I am attracted to the spirit within, I accept whatever package it comes in.

[IslaTheWitch]

smile, brains, this look in his eyes... :D

[Teket]

Spicy!! I agree with the smiles - it contributes to a positive environment

[Al_Musafir]

You mean personality wise or looks wise?

[Teket]

Both!

[Al_Musafir]

Personality wise: modest, kind, caring, knows how to put other men in limits, honest, open and transparent.

Looks wise: doesn't have hair too short, not too fat or overweight, natural hair colour (whatever she has) and most would depend on her overall appearance.

[Joshydavid25]

Nerdy, talkative, and kind of goofy..

[Teket]

That's nice!! Can I ask why you find those things attractive? Like, what if she talks... a lot?😂

[Joshydavid25]

I like to listen to people just tell whatever stories they have on their mind, and then that gets me to talking. I'm also sort of a nerd myself, and her being goofy means she can take a roasting... And give one too.. And that's the best.. Talk away.. 😎👉..

[Teket]

I love this, I feel like this is me and my friends when we play pc games together, haha! It is truly enjoyable. We end up talking 6-8h striaght sometimes and suddenly it is 4am in the morning 😅

[Teket]

So I agree with you actually, it is very attractive when people can just be themselves and talk without it being weird or feeling like it is too much!

[Joshydavid25]

That sounds enjoyable, I've done that a few times too.. Being yourself and comfortable is what it's all about, maybe that's the gist of what I really like..

[ChicoFromThe305]

Shyness or innocence.

[Teket]

Could you find someone who is the opposite attractive too? Or this is generally what you find is attractive as a "first glance"?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea it all depends on personality, there's always likable traits that people carry and the difference is the way it's mixed and the mix the person carries so I do see myself liking the opposite depending on the person's personality, usually shyness and innocence is the first things I pick up from an individual and is basically my weakness but sometimes we don't know what we like until we see or experience it.

[Alex-Snow]

Their honesty and outlook on life. Of course if they like me and maybe sex that also helps!

[Crankor]

I really look at their overall face and then if they are in decent shape.

[Crankor]

Oh I misread you meant any traits... well then personality wise it's not being too serious about stuff while still being responsible

[Staximus]

Sincere women. When a woman actually gives a fuck as much as I do.

[Anonymous]

Face sweetheart but you sure seem to have a hell of a body

[LavLavLuv]

Their vibes and personality

[Booklover_90]

An intelligent, funny, compassionate man. 😊

[Bigjake1995]

Treating people with respect

[Kelly6]

His heart and smile and laugh

[pickles77]

Good vibes, kindness, joy, fun and full of life

[TiaNour]

Humour and confidence

[straightmax12]

The person's kindness and loyalty.

[Nice222]

Personality and eyes.

[Jamesier]

Intelligence

[robocop666]

Boobs and butt same as most guys

[jimmy2]

A bit young , a smile at peace

[SunnyRS]

Confidence

[Minahh]

Kindness

[Anonymous]

Not u skin and bones