What are some boundaries you have in relationships?

[Anonymous]

The most obvious one is like cheating. I mean other stuff like having too many opposite sex friends, spending too much time alone with an opposite sex friend, flirting with other people, liking or commenting on other people’s pictures online, drinking too much.

What are you fine with, and what are you not fine with? What’s a reasonable boundary to you, and what’s unreasonable?

Updates

+1 y

Boundaries could also mean the way they treat you, not just the way they act elsewhere.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Do not lie to me

Do not hide things from me

Do not ignore me

My boundaries are pretty simple. I give him plenty of freedoms and expect the same. If he wants something, if he wants to try something, needs, feels, etc., all he has to do is talk to me.

[jaskin777]

My boundaries are

Don't get drunk

Don't cheat ( and what I mean by that is Don't talk to the opposite sex sexually , no flirting , no touching ( if it a hug it should be a quick hug ) , no looking at other pics ( half nudes and nudes ) of other women , no thinking about them to. )


Don't judge me if u can't accept me the way I am then fuck off


Don't use me

Don't lie to me

Don't yell at me

Don't put ur hands on me

[DextroShade]

My boundaries are:

• No male friends
• No going to bars or clubs
• No girls' nights out or girls' trips
• No hoe friends
• No posting slutty pictures of herself on the internet
• No contact with exes
• I have access to her phone whenever I want
• No Tiktok

[Sirenboobzilla]

JFC!

[mobiusforniner]

True love is unconditional. You hold on too tight, it’s not love. I’ve found if I let go, my wife, kids friends, coworkers, basically any normal human being- becomes more transparent. And I become more secure

[serious]

I have always been single but yes there are plenty of deal breakers and boundaries and they are very strict also.

[MissBoogus]

I always feel like I have very little boundaries, I never cared about him hanging with other people or what he does with other people etc. I suppose it’s more things like be nice to me, respect me, and there are no problems

[exitseven]

If she has a lot of guy friends that are guys she used to date or had sex with.

[Anonymous]

Men who think they have a right to control others, like yourself.

[Asker]

How do I want to control others?

[DextroShade]

We can't control what you do, just what we do. I can't stop a woman from acting in ways that make cheating likely and put our relationship at risk, but I can walk away and leave her to the streets where she belongs.

[rainbowstarsxoxo]

I’m not okay with men calling me names. I won’t tolerate verbal abuse. If you do that me then it’s over.

[boy_with_panties]

I trust my fiancee. But ofc I wouldn't tolerate flirting and stuff like that.