Friends with benefits?

[Bella2423]

Will you be a FWBs with someone you in love with but he doesn’t love you and the only way to be with him is friends with benefits? ( not me)

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+1 y

You mean for the person who has feeling, that might affect him
Maybe he or she will be happy around person they love while in this type of relationship

[Dinklex3]

No. That’s a terrible idea and I don’t see why anyone would shoot themselves in the foot like that.
A friend of mine did that. Said she was happy being friends with benefits. I told her she was clearly looking for a relationship, not a friends with benefits. She said she was fine. They ended up dating later, but he was cheating on her the whole time with his ex who he claimed was crazy, she got pregnant, he said he would marry her ( they took beautiful pics and everything), then he just left her and she’s now a single mom.

I know that’s just one example, but in general it’s just a terrible idea and they’d be setting themselves up for heartbreak.

[Bella2423]

So Sad

[Dinklex3]

It really was.

[PeachyPie93]

No, never a good idea. Why tie yourself more deeply to someone who doesn't love you.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No that will only anger me and put me in a destructive mood, not just in general but to myself as well, sex is known to make bonds stronger and having sex with them might feel like a win but in the long run would backfire as I grow bond to that woman and the woman isn't growing a bond back because she isn't into me emotionally, at that point my bond is getting stronger and it's all good until you quickly realize that the lack of commitment will fuck everything up, she sleeps with someone else and I'll lose my shit but since there's no commitment, it will all just backfire on me, cause as a friends with benefits there's no official commitment.

[Danny_dan92]

Being in a FWB’s relationship with someone you have feelings for is NOT a good idea. And that goes both ways

[Bella2423]

Why?

[Danny_dan92]

Isn’t it obvious? It’s not a good idea

[Bella2423]

You mean for the person who has feeling, that might affect him
Maybe he or she will be happy around person they love while in this type of relationship
I wrote it up in the update by mistake

[Danny_dan92]

For either person, it’s a bad idea because if the other person doesn’t feel the same way towards them and ends up sleeping with or ends up dating another person.

The person that is in love with them/has feelings for them. Is going to be devastated

[Bella2423]

Got it, thanks

[Danny_dan92]

No problem, good luck

[bradley142]

i think it would be hard to be friends with benefits with someone you really care about not knowing how the other feels about you when something sexual happens and you fall harder but find out sometime after she is into someone else that could mess your whole friendship up

[Saiesh30]

I think, yeah. Why not? If not otherwise, I'd at least get to feel the physical intimacy with her. Perhaps, more than just intimacy.

[spartan55]

Girls do this often and then wonder why it doesn't work out.

[Jerre]

No, I would not. friends with benefits is strictly having sex. Love is something that shud not be there.

[Jerre]

@bella2423 Thank you for the Like

[Kelly6]

@bella2423

no that's not how it works

[Bella2423]

What do you mean?

[Jhonrembo36]

It will be very bad idea to do so🤔🤔

[Jamie05rhs]

Absolutely not.

[i_am_an_engineer]

Yes..