Is My Girlfriend's Behavior Okay? Need Your Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

We really love each other and planning to marry next year. But, she’s not ready for downs in relationship. but sometimes she ignores me when I talk about things bothering me. It makes me sad. She tells me in a mocking way, 'Tell me when you finish; I'll come to talk then.'

For example, when a bee bit me, she asked for a picture. I said it's gone, and then she immediately asked about breakfast. She didn't even ask if it was painful, when, how, or anything like that. When I told her anyone would ask such questions, she started mockingly ignoring.

What do you think about her behaviour and what to do?

(i have told several times to stop such behaviour)

thank you

[Anonymous]

I’d be questioning if I wanted to marry someone like that. Are you sure you want to marry someone who mocks you when you’re upset? Are you sure you want to marry somebody who puts their wants and desires (asking about breakfast) ahead of your needs (making sure you don’t need a doctor or medication)? Are you sure you want to marry someone who ignores you when you try to communicate?
That last one, about communication, is really important. Every marriage needs healthy communication, and right now it doesn’t seem like your girlfriend is willing to give that to you.

[Asker]

You’re right. She just wants me to entertain her and is not ready for any arguments or clearing concerns. I was trying to figure out if I’m acting childish or is a valid reason to get upset. Thank you so much

[Jkgordon]

OHHH NO!!! Please don’t marry her you deserve better! Love yourself! What is your astrology sign & hers?
Do not marry her. Anybody that makes you feel sad for the little things is NOT the person you should be marrying!
PERIOD! Get your ring back and call it off!

[Asker]

But except such behaviour, we are happy.. still i’m fed up

[Jkgordon]

You are happy but when you have a problem she makes you sad and not only that she clearly states she doesn’t want to hear it.
DON’T MARRY THIS FEMALE TRUST ME SHE’S only happy on her terms. What’s the astrology your signs?

[Asker]

Ohh.. thanks for your reply. Mine is sagittarius and she is Aries

[AviatorTom]

Your question hints at the thought that you can probably do better. Mocking a partner in fun, sometimes, is fine. She seems to do it more than sometimes, and that rightly bothers you.

[Asker]

Yes..