How Long Does It Take?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone,

The guy i was seeing for more than 3 months finally asked me to be his girlfriend. It's not even a week yet that we're together but I just want to ask if how long for man to say the "iloveyou" word? Or should I say it first?

[Jkgordon]

It comes naturally. Don’t force him you look pathetic. Don’t say I love you hoping he’ll say it back. If this was live st first sight he will say it. But if this is a growing relationship it will take its course if you are head over heels over him, I suggest you get a hobby. Sitting around baring your life in a guy you been with for three months is desperate and pathetic. Let it be natural.

[Asker]

Id agree! Its my first time dating again so I don't know if its normal not to say I love you right away 😅

[Jkgordon]

Guys must say it first regardless if you feel that way it’s the law of nature

[stellakay]

My boyfriend and I didn't exchange those words until we were 6 months in, but I think we were both feeling it around d the 3/4 month mark and just too nervous to say it. You say it when you feel it. There is no sense in being too early or late.

[Roudyrebel8]

Depends on the situation and people involved

[Asker]

Can you specify?

[Roudyrebel8]

Some guys say it really quickly some guys wait a while and some want the girl to say it first. I know that doesn't help much but if you love him I'd go ahead and tell him

[Asker]

Why do some men wait for a while?

[Roudyrebel8]

Insecurity or maybe stupidity? I don't know either

[Twalli]

If you feel it, say it