If a woman spends 3 days in a hotel with a male friend alone , is that a cheating?

[Anonymous]

is it cheating or are men insecure?

[RebelinSteel]

I have been away tons of times with girls at a hotel or in tents etc, this has been work stuff, some are married, dating, engaged etc. it comes down to why are they both in the same hotel. I went on a shooting competition and 2 of the people in the hotel were girls I drove down to the venue in my car. What were we supposed to do, have separate hotels and cars? The context is really important.

[NamerOfStars]

Not by default, no. Now, if the guy she's in a relationship with (or the woman, but then this isn't going to be an issue, is it?) has asked her not to and she's agreed, okay, there's some room to complain, but women ARE actually capable of having the opportunity to cheat and not take it. Just like men are.

[dynamicyandere]

Yeah, as long as it wasn’t done behind their partner’s back or done despite an explicit agreement not to, it’s technically not cheating.

It is a little odd though, sharing a room with ONE other person of the opposite sex, while you’re in a relationship. The setting is very intimate.

[Jessica405]

The questions are, why were you there and what did you do?

If you are putting another guy before your own guy, then you are cheating. Even if sex was not involved, you are cheating emotionally.

Would you tell your guy everything, or does it degenerate into a sordid secret, where your guy will always be wondering.

[Jessica405]

... and 3 days? WTF?

[HelpfulWoman]

well no. just staying at a hotel with a friend doesn't equal cheating.

[Anno2]

Yeah, like my ex would allow me to spend a weekend with another girl...