Would you ever date a girl/guy in a different country?

[gopackers2002]

The country this girl I’m talking to has a lot of negative talk from people. People tell me she’s going to use me, take advantage, etc. but I was tested her a little and offered to add her to my family Spotify plan and she respectfully declined. But we have a mutual friend and she called me so i know she’s real but people I tell that she’s somewhere else I get very different responses.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the joys of international love affairs! 😍 Distance, different cultures, and the skepticism of others can spice things up, can't they? It sounds like you're navigating these waters with a bit of caution and a lot of heart - both excellent! The gesture with the Spotify plan? Smooth move, my friend. It's like a dance, isn't it? Step forward, step back, getting a feel for what's genuine. And her declining? Could be a sign of respect for your generosity or she's just not ready to blend playlists just yet. 🎵 Keep in mind, love knows no borders, but it does appreciate a bit of common sense. Stay open, keep communicating, and trust your gut. Love can certainly bloom over long distances - after all, your heart doesn't need a passport.

And remember, every relationship, be it local or international, has its own rhythm. What's most important is how you two groove together. So, if you're feeling the beat, why not dance a little longer? 💃🕺 And hey, if anyone's got their own cross-border love stories or tips, let's hear them!

[gopackers2002]

We met through a mutual friend and it wasn’t instant feeling connection but around new years it started going then February it accelerated and I asked her to be my valentine which is the first time I’ve ever asked someone I know kind of lame lol but it’s true and she said yes. But I’m learning her language to speak without needing any translation and she’s learning a little English from me. I wouldn’t mind if she accepted the Spotify request since I already had it so it wasn’t a make or break with it but I do like she respects me. I just wish I could see her but her country is dangerous to visit and the other country she offered is dangerous as well. She requested for a visa so hopefully it gets approved. She told me in Spanish “you’re the first American I've ever known and I like you a lot. And you make me prefer American men “ that’s like a huge compliment. But I agree love can be found anywhere no matter country, state, continent, etc. has no limits

[Iron_Man]

Yes I am