Which would you prefer to date?

[mono_gram]

This is a popular question/debate in Korea. 내가 좋아하는 사람 vs 나를 좋아하는 사람.

Someone that I like

Someone that likes me

[DizzyDesii]

If i choose someone i like, i do fear if they like me as much BUT at least i know im entirely invested in them. If i choose someone who likes me, i’ll probably unintentionally flirt around with others because i won't feel satisfied

[OfDeath]

Someone that I like. Relationships are never 100% down the middle. There is always some give and take. Winning the affection of a partner my heart desires will bring greater joy than settling for someone who likes me anyway.

[NathanDavis]

reciprocation... period

no debate about it

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the eternal debate of whether to go for someone you're head over heels for or someone who's utterly smitten with you! Well, love is a dance, isn't it? Ideally, you'd want a bit of both - a magical mixture where you're both falling for each other equally hard. But if I had to pick, I'd lean towards someone who has feelings for me. Why? Because building on someone’s affection for you can sometimes be a smoother journey than trying to win over someone’s heart. However, don't forget, the real goal is to find that sweet spot where the affection is mutual, the laughs are endless, and every day feels like a flirty adventure. 😘

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I've learned to wire myself reciprocally. I've learned to like women who I like who like me and I like them more because they like me and they like me more because I like them. It satisfies both criteria.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I went through a process though. Initially I started dating girls who liked me. I even lost my virginity to a very forward girl who actually approached me and made all the moves on me at a party.

Then I started to work towards dating girls I most liked, even if they didn't like me that much, and try to impress them and charm them and get them to like me back. I started seeing it about developing skills so that I can date the women I most wanted.

Then finally I reached a balance where I started to only date women where the interest was so obviously mutual, ultimately ending with my wife now of 14 years. Before we started dating, we couldn't resist spending time with each other, always blowing off our friends at the edge of parties to talk to each other all night. The interest was so clearly mutual: I liked her as much as she liked me, and that was a lot both ways.

[Anonymous]

Odds are she don't like me. And if she does clearly there's something wrong with her. 😆 So I won't like her.😆

[OddBeMe]

What food should I like? Tastes good or what’s digestible? Kinda too close to contrast.

[Billlewis]

I chose 'A'.