There's probably 500 to? different types of love..
And love is one of the most beautiful feelings I have ever felt. True love the most powerful love is unconditional love.. . But I think for most people to understand that they have to love themselves within. That deep.
. I think most people even myself think that we know what love is true love unconditional love is
But . The truth is we only know what we know we only know what we have experienced.
So if you weren't raised in a loving family or . Maybe. A family that didn't know how to express our show their love and that's all you know until you're out on your own and you experience it with somebody there are so many different levels of love.. .
But like. Everything else in this world where you only know what we know and we only know what we have experienced.
And I also believe until you can completely love yourself. Unconditionally you can't really love anybody else that deep... But finding that person that you are compatible with that you can share that experience with is the most beautiful thing in the world besides becoming one with that person.
And I guess. If you have never experienced it before getting a dog because they will teach you unconditional love no matter what... Thank God for God making dog.
To teach men how to love unconditionally otherwise we might still be in the cave man days LOL
Yes I loved my ex wife. I also loved a few girls who I never got to be with at all.
I think that love isn't what people think it is. Love is about context. It's a chemical that is only releases when the context is right. Though you can hack the system, and say inject dopamine at the right times and generate love that isn't logically valid.
But to identify love means for you to identify whether said love is valid or not. And I feel like that is the real question. Which feelings are valid love and which feelings are not? Which are infatuation and which are genuine?
Well I don't know. But why does it seem like the bar is so high? I have loved girls from afar before. I admired them from afar and never made a move because I knew she would never like me.
Is that not love? We didn't get to know eachother well enough. We could have dated eachother and it could have been horrible. Does that mean it's not love?
I love women in general. I love every woman I meet. I think they're great. Yes I'm still a man who lusts for every attractive female I see. But I still love women for who they are. Is that not love?
And why would you love some random person? Because they're hot? I doubt it. I don't know if anyone falls in love only because they're hot. For myself there could be 10 10's around but I'll fall in love with the girl who is an 8. Why? I don't know. Something special about her just hits me right and I can't help bit feel some type of way for her.
Even if I can't have her. I'll just enjoy her in what capacity I can. Even if it's just platonic forever. At least I get to talk to her sometimes and look into her pretty face or even flirt now and them who knows. Is that not love?
We have been madly in love for 9 years and there is no sign of it ever stopping. We still go out on romantic dates, just we did when we first met.
I played that game, it was even funny for some years. At the end it's just mutual imagination and other interest can destroy it very easily.
Ah, love, the most captivating and yet elusive pursuit known to humankind! 🌹Absolutely, I've been lucky enough to not just stumble upon it but to dive deep into its enchanting waters. Real love, the kind that lights up your soul and makes every sunrise worth waking up for, isn't just a fairy tale; it's as real as it gets. Yes, amidst the rollercoaster that life is, I found that profound connection with my wonderful wife. It's that kind of love that sees you through the chaotic mess of life, where you're each other's rock, best friend, and home. Just remember, while searching for love, it's crucial not to miss out on it because you're too busy scrutinizing the map. Sometimes, love finds you when you least expect it, often in the most unexpected places. Keep your heart open, and your spirit adventurous. Love might just be waiting around the corner, ready to dance into your life when you least anticipate it. 💖
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Beginning when I was 16, all but one of my girlfriends loved me, but I was merely infatuated. I didn't know what love was.
The one girlfriend, as it turned out, was infatuated with me at first, but she was also looking to use me. After almost a year, we had a very unpleasant break up. I now hate her.
My next girlfriend was my first true love. She loved me, too. I met her when I was 36 and she was 30. We wound up living together for over a year. As it turned out, though, we couldn't be life-long partners and wound up separating. She died 9 years ago from a sudden medical problem at the age of 55. I still love her deeply and will never forget her.
I met my wife when I was 40 and married her two years later. We've been happily married now for almost 27 years, had a LOT of fun, and built a wonderful life together. She's my perfect partner. We truly love each other.
I have been in love before but I have never had someone love me before. I did love this girl but she would never give me a shot, she knew how I felt but it didn't matter one bit. So I have never experienced having love but have experienced being in love.
Yes, but I ended things because it is objectively the best thing to do. We had a very strong chemistry and could tell what each other were thinking. Hell, I still can despite not having talked for a while.
I still care for her and think about her casually every day even though it ended in 2021. However, I am not in-love anymore despite there being a connection still. It just is what it is.
Ah, love, the most captivating and yet elusive bla bla blaaah.
My two dogs love me.
And the one I had before, did
Otherwise: I refuse the schmaltzy concept that media are lying about.
Which does not mean that I can't enjoy a pleasant relationship.
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Love has been so perverted over time. Most women are raised with the prince and princess fairytale and that has completely skewed what real love is. Women work off a checklist that men have to pass. Men play it by ear and are more likely to find love. But there are those men that are looking for a woman that are like pornstars. What those men don't realize that she's like a pornstar for a reason and they will most likely cheat on him.
I have, we were together for 20 years, but not anymore
I, as a man have never felt love. I have been in few relationships where I was made to feel that I was loved just to get someone back from me. Most men realize that they are wanted for as long as they can provide something.
No. And I'm kind of happier that way. I think it's true how they say "love is like a drug" and I don't want that type of addiction. Uh uh. So I stay humble and I stay single. I never like things that are dogmatic anyhow
Love is a fiction that is allowed to flourish in the minds of two romantic partners to obscure the truth that all relationships are transactional.
Experienced love better than fiction, but external factors got in the way so we could not stay together.
I've experienced what appeared to be love but, so far, has never turned out to BE love, at least not from her.
m Yes i have found it also got it and now I'm with that person
Yes, God's love through Christ Jesus my Lord John 3 vs 16
Non romantic? Yes.
Romantic No. That was not love.
Yes! My first boyfriend when I was a young teen. He gave me a life long STD. Since that love I’ve hated relationships and sex. Even trusting someone can blind you from safety
Love doesn't exist. Only platonic love does. So no I have not experienced it.
None of those. I thought it was love 2 different times (10 years apart) but turned out it was heartburn. Thank God they both were to good for little ol me. 🚣♂️
I have experienced love several times and I am marrying my last love next month.
Yes once
Love is rare lol
Fuck love lol
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