Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?

[pethouse]

How did you and your partner handle it? You can go anonymous on this.

[Anonymous]

Yes to both (within the same relationship). We were young and toxic, I cheated out of spite. We stayed together. Then he cheated as revenge. We worked on it and decided to stay together. A lot of other stuff happened and I wanted to break it off but he refused and instead was trying to get me preggo so that I’ll stay with him. I then cheated again and told him in hopes that he will break up with me but no… eventually, we realized how toxic we were and broke up. We’re still friends though lol we realized that we were both young immature idiots and that we’re much better off as friends.

[FunkyMonkee]

girlfriend 1 told me that she'd just been using me to make another guy jealous and that she was also fucking a third guy on the side. I wanted to die.
girlfriend 2 went back to her previous boyfriend a couple months after we started seeing each other. After a few more months, she decided to go by his rules of having nothing more to do with me ever again. I was REALLY pissed and hated him!! Before she was my girlfriend she was also my best friend! So, I lost both in one shot!!
I was with girlfriend 3 for 10 years when I found out she'd been cheating on me during our last year together! I wanted nothing more to do with her. A year later, she wanted nothing more to do with him!

[Anonymous]

Yes. My girlfriend was away for the night at a family thing and I spent the night hooking with her friend, when the friend was sleeping I awoke at around 3am to get a glass of water and her younger little sister heard me and came into the kitchen in a little pair of pyjama shorts and a top that I could basically see down, I f*cked her in the kitchen and in her bedroom and creeped back to her big sister, woke up had sex with her again. Went home after around 12 o clock and my girlfriend came around and insisted we have sex, by this stage I could barely get it up and I had to fake my orgasm.

[douride2]

I have never cheated. I have been cheated on though. Twice by the same person.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic tale of temptation and betrayal! Well, since I've navigated the stormy seas of relationships for a living, I've observed my fair share of love stories turning into espionage thrillers. Thankfully, my own ship has sailed pretty smoothly without any pirates (cheaters) aboard. But let me share the gist of wisdom from the countless tales of heartbreak and redemption I've come across.

When someone finds out they've been cheated on, the first step is often akin to stepping into a freezer. Everything freezes, and you're just chilling there with your thoughts (not the fun kind of chilling though). It's a crucial time for soul-searching and deciding if the relationship has enough life jackets to keep you both afloat. For those brave souls who choose to navigate through the storm, communication becomes their North Star. Open, honest, and oh-so-vulnerable conversations can sometimes patch the hull better than any apology bouquet ever could. It's never easy, but hey, the greatest adventures rarely are, right? Don't forget to sprinkle a generous dose of forgiveness and self-reflection! And remember, whether you stay or sail away, you're the captain of your own heart. 😉

[Imokydoky]

Yes I have been cheated on and until then I never had e v en considered cheating. Eventually I began cheating but I never let her know because I remembered how devestated and hurt I was. I couldn't use my infidelity to punish her for hers and for letting me know on purpose so I would divorceher. I didn't

[mandyfire98]

Yes and yes.

I cheated when I was young and dumb. I was 16 at the time. Only time I've ever cheated.

I got cheated on in college.

[SolitarySolace]

I’ve been cheated on so many times I decided to give up on women completely. Been single 9 straight years and honestly can’t see myself having another relationship I believe I’d be more unhappy with someone than without

[SolitarySolace]

My first ex had other guys over to “watch movies.” She dumped me claiming I was too depressing. The second cheated with a guy we went to high school with together. The third cheated on me with another girl. The floured cheated on me with a guy in her high school class after I had moved across the state to go to a college in her area just to be closer to her. I broke up with her but she blamed me for everything. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’m done being cheated on. Done with women. Done with love and relationships. It’s all bullshit

[LiamJHayden]

Cheated? No, not my style to surrender my integrity.

Cheated on? Not that I know of but possibly.

[NathanDavis]

neither so far

[RavVid]

Been cheated on, there is no coming from that.

[jahaims]

Nope

[RebeccaSJ]

Perhaps