Have you caught your partner cheating on you behind your back?

[scott04sa22]

[Finchie40]

Yes I busted a few through the years , it’s devastating and sad that someone can betray you that way , but to me it was a learning experience to learn what to accept and not to accept in a relationship. I don’t take a girl back into my life that cheats on me period , once she cheats it’s over , she becomes a complete piece of shit to my eyes , in time I might forgive her , but i won’t forget , a few of my cheating exes tried getting me back and I just laugh and say NO FUCKING WAY ! Why would I take you back? So you can cheat on me again? You must be out of your mind to even consider trying to get me back and I just walk and laugh. Cheating is not a mistake , Cheating is a selfish choice , if I cheat on a girl? I am a selfish piece of shit , so that’s how I look at people that cheat period. Sadly cheating happens more than we like to think it does. Mainly because most people in general are selfish people that only really care about themselves and what they feel is best for themselves, thinking Grass is greener on the other side instead of just watering the grass they are already standing on. So if someone is that unhappy in a committed relationship? End the fucking relationship before jumping into bed with someone else. Sadly most cheaters don’t do that because they only care about themselves , they are selfish people that shouldn’t be in relationships period. I have been the other guy a handful of times as well with Girls’ that were cheating on their husbands and boyfriends with me. When I find out the truth as to why she cheated on her partner? They all pretty much said the same thing , He treats me like shit , he is mean to me , he tries to control everything I do. I said then why don’t you just end your relationship with him instead of cheating on him? Because I still care about him. I just laugh and shake my head and think WOW you are a selfish piece of shit person , well thanks for a Good time , but not a long time. Sadly some of those girls’ went back to their partners’ like nothing happened , and I was confronted by a husband that found out his wife was cheating on him with me , I told him the truth about everything , I kind of felt bad for the guy cuz I put myself in his shoes and I sadly know how it feels to be betrayed by your so called loving partner. So I told him the trust and told him to not take her back , to file a divorce and kick her ass to the curb where she belongs , He took her back, I was shocked and I never spoke to either of them ever again. The fucked up thing was I really
Liked her to , she played me and her husband for 4 months before he found out. But she was amazing in bed and rocked my world , why she went back to her husband was beyond me.

[bolverk]

Yes - I caught two partners cheating, both relationships died on the day of discovery, they were cut completely out of my life that day, and I change any passwords they may have seen.

[scott04sa22]

that has happened to me, i had 2 partners who were cheating on me. i might do the friends with benefits road but i haven't decided yet

[Ms_Facesitter]

No I have luckily only dated men who never cheated.

[electromagnetic]

His girlfriend called me and told me.

[AI Opinion]

Spicing up the conversation with a touch of my relationship expertise! Catching a partner in the act of betrayal is like a chilly breeze on a summer night – shocking and unpleasant. The key here is to approach the situation with calmness and clarity. If you find yourself in this tango of confusion, take a deep breath and gather your thoughts. Communication, my friend, is your golden ticket. Address the issue head-on but with compassion. Remember, it's about understanding the why behind the cheating. Sometimes, love stories hit a rocky patch, but it doesn't mean the book is closed. Explore the possibility of writing the next chapter together, but only if both hearts are in it. Stay strong and never forget, you've got this!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Cheating yes, but not behind my back.. I was in my teens and she shagged my best friend knowing where I would be. I caught them at it. That was the first and last time it happened.

[HeftyLefty]

I have. Drove to my friend’s house and there was her car.
Guess he wasn’t gonna make our tee time because he already had his putter in action.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

If I did, she's no longer my partner. She just freed up her dating life. no exceptions.

[DrPepper12]

Long time ago in my teens. So funny now. We're still friends and I cheated on her too.

[Lessthanaveragr]

So many times. But it's OK tho cud she never apologized and made it out to be my fault.

[Chazmatazz269]

Yeah. It’s pretty shitty.

[Nikki1989]

No, never.

[NetherlandsNar]

It never happened to me

[EmpressAJ]

Yeah and I left quietly and changed my number

[Billlewis]

I can't even comprehend how any guy who is dating you could be attracted to any other woman.

[Badgirlnatalia]

Yeah I did

[scott04sa22]

im sorry to hear that, sometimes someone good comes along or not. you have to be more happy on yourself too

[Account]

Nope.

[elizamichale1]

Yes I hav

[Charliefretz329]

In the past many times

[dudeinohio]

Yes I have