What's it like to live with the opposite sex?

[Simslover92]

Outside of living with my step-dad, I've never lived with the opposite sex as an adult and wonder what it's like. My boyfriend wants us to live together really bad and I'm not sure if we should before marriage, but I'm thinking about it if I get the librarian job where he lives.

[LazerBean]

Living together before marriage is a huge mistake. It's great to live with a spouse after marriage, but not not of you have extensively and objectively vetted them to make sure their the right person to marry. Living together and having sex before marriage basically ruins people's ability to do that, which is why saving sex for marriage is the most basic of conservative values.

[Apple1996]

It's the best to live with your partner! I absolutely loved moving in with my husband and getting to cuddle everynight.

I've only ever lived in houses with lots of men tho so I don't know what it's like not to live with them lol

[Simslover92]

Oh ok lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Your thoughts are right miss sims, it's better not to move before marriage because there's still no bond between you and him, after marriage you will become a family and you will be his wife, boyfriend and girlfriend are still strangers to each other, that's my opinion!

Living with the opposite sex is beautiful when someone is married!

[ManInChains]

Here's why you shouldn't live with your significant other before marriage -

https://youtu.be/J4_d7nENMFM?si=ehMv7b3KKlKOzRjf

[Simslover92]

Wow great video. He's 100% right.

[ManInChains]

Thanks 😊

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[AI Opinion]

Diving into cohabitation is like opening a book to an unwritten chapter in your relationship, exciting and filled with possibilities! Living with your partner brings everyday moments to life, turning mundane things like grocery shopping or making breakfast together into shared experiences that build your bond. Sure, it'll test your patience when you find socks not in the sock drawer or dishes left unwashed, but it's all part of the dance of understanding and compromise. Just like any good story, it has its ups and downs, laughter, and learning moments. It's about discovering the depth of your love, beyond the romantic dates, into the realness of who you are together. If your heart's whispering (or shouting!) that it's the right step, especially with the librarian job on the horizon, listen to it. Life's too short for what-ifs, and love, my dear, is all about writing your own story together. Keep the communication lines open, be ready for a bit of a rollercoaster ride, and most importantly, enjoy the journey of falling in love a little more every day. 📚💖

[dustybiker2]

It really does depend in what they are like as individuals.

[dustybiker2]

I'm tempted to list a dozen gag men and give descriptions on what I think it would be like to live with them (for fun) but I'd probably be frozen for my candor with a couple.

[Simslover92]

Yeah please don't do that. You don't want your account frozen over that.

[sirderpsalot123]

I'm easy to live with 😇

[dustybiker2]

@Simslover92 lol I wouldn't. Tempting, but no.

@sirderpsalot123 Do you clean up after you make mac and cheese, sir? 🤨

[sirderpsalot123]

Most of the time lol

[dustybiker2]

@sirderpsalot123 🦆

[IslaTheWitch]

it is just living with another person... sometimes it can be annoying if their habits aren't compatible with yours, sometimes it's pure bliss and of course everything in between

[DishLady]

It’s nice, even fun most of the time, though admittedly there are habits for both the guy and the girl to conquer to help make living together smoother.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your gonna love it then especially if you love that person. Just make sure he is financially stable cause believe it or not the most common reason relationships end is over money

[Simslover92]

I certainly will especially if we wait till marriage.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Awwwww

[ScottyDoesntKnow88]

It's different for everyone, but I would definitely suggest you live with your partner before you get married to them cuz you might be a great couple, but if you get on each other's nerves constantly while living together, it may not end up being what you want.

[msc545]

For me it was hell, but then again my picker was broken...

[Simslover92]

Damn I'm sorry.

[ManInChains]

I think you have more than just your picker broken if you think Biden or RFK are better presidential options than Trump @msc545. The only thing I disagree with you on. Trump is the only candidate who will not give women more power than they already have.

[msc545]

@ManInChains He probably will not, you are right about that, but there are other issues. Trump is very ill and he will just get worse over time. God knows what he will be like in 3 or 4 years.

[ManInChains]

Still better to have him than Biden or RFK though. I think if Trump has any sort of decline in his health or mental state he would resign and have his vp step in. I bet you he does not want to end up like Biden.

[msc545]

@ManInChains No offense, but I think you do not understand the severity and chronicity of the problems Trump has. They are progressive, not static, and that can be seen in his history over the preceding 5 years. He is getting worse.

[ManInChains]

I have not noticed any progressive problems regarding trump. If there were it would be known. Biden’s problems are known and no one gives a shit so even if trump did have any known issues I don’t think people would care.

[msc545]

@ManInChains So look at Trump's videos from 5 years ago, and compare his presentation then to what you see now -- what has changed?

[ManInChains]

Nothing has changed he is a funny man and whoever takes his sense of humor seriously are the ones with mental issues

[msc545]

Thanks.

[msc545]

@ManInChains He is not funny. He is ill. I am actually qualified to conclude that.

[ManInChains]

Maybe you should meet the man himself in person first before making any real conclusions? Attend the next Trump rally in your area and make an actual conclusion

[msc545]

@ManInChains I don't want to be around MAGA people as I think they are not safe. I've watched enough videos and listened to enough audio of Trump to figure things out. It is not subtle.

[ManInChains]

There was a rally in my area recently. I was hoping to go but I had to work. There was no mention of any violence or mention of anything unsafe happen I’m pretty sure if there were it would be all over the news in order to negatively impact Trump’s chances at winning the election.

[msc545]

@ManInChains That is not what I am paying attention to. As I said, it's subtle.

[ManInChains]

If it is so subtle than what’s the big deal?

[msc545]

@ManInChains The big deal is that he has two very significant mental disorders that influence most of his behavior and thinking, both of which are very disturbed. His judgment is shot, and he has absolutely no impulse control. That is a very bad combination for anyone. Not his fault, but I don't want him controlling nuclear weapons.

[ManInChains]

He was president for 4 years already and did nothing with nuclear weapons. What makes he think he will during a second term?

[msc545]

@ManInChains I think the risk is there and just like his illness, it's increasing. Not something I wan to gamble with.

[ManInChains]

Well then it’s a good thing you’re voting for you cat. 👌🏻

[msc545]

@ManInChains I think so. he will have an unending supply of caviar and smoked salmon!

[ManInChains]

What if Trump picks Allistor as his vp? 🤣

[msc545]

@ManInChains Allister won't accept that. He is far too smart for that stuff.

[ManInChains]

🤣 He’d be turning down the opportunity of a lifetime

[msc545]

@ManInChains I just checked with Allister - he wants you to know he is ok with that.

[dolemite58]

I wouldn’t live with a woman ever. I have my own place, she has hers and we take turns spending the night at each others houses. Plus If we fight we can retreat back to our own places and aren’t stuck in the same house together. 😂

[Kimberly1979]

Can be fun or hell it depends on your partner mg ex was hell he was verbally abusive , cheating. My current is much better, he’s gotta jobs. So it depends.

[OtterMan68]

you go through a lot more toilet paper living with a woman

[mobiusforniner]

Practical real advice.

[Twalli]

Not too different from spending the night except you don't leave. You should come up with a chore plan though.

[DrPepper12]

It's a learning curve but a fun one. You NEVER know someone until you live with them!! It makes relationships stronger by requiring compromise and communication.

[Staximus]

You should always live with somebody for at least a year before you get married, so you know what you are getting yourself into.

[sirderpsalot123]

Women use A LOT of toilet paper and they have fuckloads of clothes.

[CubaPirate]

Divine