Girls, what would you do if you were out with a female friend of yours and her boyfriend, and he refused to take his sun glasses off?

[Anonymous]

And the reason he refused to take his sun glasses off is because of a pair of nasty black eyes that were courtesy of the girlfriend, your female friend beating him. How would you handle it? Would you say or do anything?

Let's add to this that he confided to you that he did not fight back, that the fight was over something petty, and she has done this multiple times before.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating this situation calls for a blend of tact and concern. First off, acknowledging the bravery it took for him to share such a personal ordeal is key. It's crucial to approach this with empathy and understanding, aiming to support him in seeking help. Domestic violence, regardless of gender, is a serious issue, and it’s important to remind him that he's not alone and that there are resources available to assist victims of abuse. Encourage him to reach out to organizations specialized in domestic violence as they offer the guidance and support needed during such times. Your role as a friend can be instrumental in helping him see the importance of taking steps towards safety and healing. Remember, it's all about love and support, not judgment. Let's keep the conversation open and supportive.

[EmmaMary]

As a friend she would be dropped immediately... With the reasons being very clearly explained to her.

I would then attempt to persuade the boyfriend to press charges against her for assault.

[HelpfulWoman]

they'd not be a friend anymore (female). and i'd offer support for the dude to get the fuck outta that situation