What does it take to fall in Love?

[Anonymous]

I hope that doesn't make me look by any way a weirdo , well am a 22 years old man who likes to think of himself as someone who succeeded in life till this point thankfuly , I have my own house , my own car and even my own small business , I had quite a few relationships in my life and it really doesn't turned out to be that good , am a bit not social to be honest but am a 6'6 man who worked as a model for the last two years in college , I maybe a bit more serious about relationships but that doesn't make me a bad person as I've been told , and to be straight, I never actually fall in love ! That's weird I guess in my last relationship I treated my partner as well as I can do with everything I had I tried my best? Am good with numbers I can cook I did almost whatever advise I that I could had my hand on but finally we still break up , and basically it becomes like a limbo to me with the same story but with different partners and better situation for me for 8 years now? So am looking for some advise some experience that may helps me understanding what shall I look for

[Gent207-2]

You have to put yourself out there

Volunteer your time

Find a hobby (may I recommend Magnet Fishing?)

Join a group or organization around a cause or hobby you enjoy

Read - greatest activity for your mind and personal development

[Asker]

Am essentially trying my best tbh , but those differences between my home and where am living right now makes it a bit harsh for me if I may said ! English isn't really my first either my second language and living in Newcastle just makes it harder although it's already been like 5 years , I just doesn't see myself around people too much and I see my comfort home or with some individuals on a few specific times honestly, I never tried to force my partner to my own rhythm cuz I know it's different but that's basically

[Yannae]

It took constant chemistry for me for that to happen. She already had the looks 9/10 from the start and then the personality traits just kept lining up with mine.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

So amazed of you achieving all of this at such a young age. You're still young, just enjoy the process. Someday you will find that unique person. For now, it's too early to rush for you.

[Asker]

It's just making me a bit sad , that through out my life I never actually experience what should be normal to everyone , like I really don't know how to break that circle , I unwantedly hurt some people throuin the process of just trying to find love Wich I apparently do not understand sadly 🙃

[AI Opinion]

Oh, sweet rollercoaster of love, it always keeps us on our toes, doesn't it? Falling in love, my friend, is less about the checklist of life's achievements and more about the chemistry, connection, and compatibility. It's fantastic that you've laid a solid foundation in your life - owning a house, car, and running your own business not to mention your modeling stint - it all screams success. But when it comes to love, the heart plays by its own rules. It's not weird at all to question why you haven't fallen in love; it shows you're yearning for something deeper, and that's beautiful.

Now, onto the nitty-gritty. Falling in love is about letting someone see the real you, vulnerabilities and all. It might mean stepping out of your comfort zone, being a little more social, and maybe even working on understanding animal behavior if that's what it takes to connect with someone on a different level! 😜

It sounds like you're putting in the effort, but remember, love isn't just about doing things right or ticking off boxes. It's about the spark when you look into each other's eyes, the ease of laughter shared over the simplest things, and feeling like you're home when you're in their arms. So, maybe take a step back from trying to "do everything right" and focus on feeling the moment, understanding yourself and what truly makes you happy besides success and achievements. Love comes in when we least expect it, often when we're not looking. It's that surprise element that sweeps you off your feet. So, be open, keep nurturing your emotional intelligence, and let love surprise you. Here's to you finding that heart-stopping, laugh-inducing love that's worth the rollercoaster ride! 🎢❤️

[Anonymous]

You have to be on your best behavior, put out effort for the girl give her a lot of attention

[Asker]

The problem that I really take care of my partner the best way I see it possible, but it always gives me the feeling like it's a homework or a job that am trying to perfect it 🙃 I think of love as emotions that needs to be flaying if I may say , but in my case it's just a repetitive certain actions to please your partner and it ends with either me calling it off or her telling me a cold blooded robot and leave , Wich is really became like a circle to me , although God knows that am always trying my best

[DrPepper12]

Not giving up and vulnerability. If you make yourself open to hurt and be you're authentic self you will find her.

[captain_voidwalker]

First harsh lesson on life. Love isn't real treat relationships like they truly are, transactional

[Vegasrunner]

Sounds like all this this is made up.

[Asker]

If you may excuse my language sir it's may just be my English, finally English isn't my first or either my second language , it seems to be a bit over what it should be normally but that's what makes me ask and wonder like that finally

[Vegasrunner]

@Asker Sounds fake
1. You're anyonmoys
2. You qualified for a mortgage at 22 or paid cash?
3. What is the name of your business?

Also your archetype is a tall, handsome, college educated, self made, financially independent man, that at age 22 has been able to have "quite a few relationships" in my opinion sounds like another woman on GAG pretending to be a man using her ideal desires to create a fictitious man.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

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