Yeah, I'm slow and wary when it comes to love and relationships- blame it on trust issues and poor relationships/unrequited love in the past. I take my time getting to know people: from friendships to dating, along with feeling them and their intentions out.
I might have a crush on someone in a few weeks or so, but actual love? NOO, that has to be earned (and repriocated!) Which for me, takes a while to happen, because I have to make sure the feeling is mutual and I feel comfortable around said person. Which realistically, takes a few months of consistent talking, chatting, phone calls, and opening up to each other.
That's why I don't believe in "love at first sight." More like lust at first sight...
I fall in love based on the person's personal quality and availability to me and not based on the amount of exposure I have with them in my life so if a guy is attractive, love could happen in half a year or a several years.
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Anywhere from months to years...
Yeah, I'm slow and wary when it comes to love and relationships- blame it on trust issues and poor relationships/unrequited love in the past. I take my time getting to know people: from friendships to dating, along with feeling them and their intentions out.
I might have a crush on someone in a few weeks or so, but actual love? NOO, that has to be earned (and repriocated!) Which for me, takes a while to happen, because I have to make sure the feeling is mutual and I feel comfortable around said person. Which realistically, takes a few months of consistent talking, chatting, phone calls, and opening up to each other.
That's why I don't believe in "love at first sight." More like lust at first sight...
I fall in love based on the person's personal quality and availability to me and not based on the amount of exposure I have with them in my life so if a guy is attractive, love could happen in half a year or a several years.
A few weeks to a few months.