How long does it take for you to fall in love with someone?

Question

For me about 3 to 4 months.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I’m old school…

Attraction, in some form, exists from beginning.
Compatibility #1: 3 dates.
Compatibility #2: 2.5 months in and checkin with Attraction before Families.
Compatibility #3: Sex time? 5-6 months. Shared physical exchanges have taken place sometime after happy family review or 6 months.

If this is too much work then she’s not going run life at my way and pace, anyway.
Happy New Year 🥳

connemara_crocodile · Accepted Answer

Same

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

It varies, but usually 6-12 months? If not longer- I've had cases where it took a year or longer, where it started as a friendship, then grew into more the closer we got (unfortunately falling for friends usually didn't end well due to unrequited feelings, but that's another story).

More than anything, it depends on: how much time I spend with said guy, is there attraction there, and is the feeling mutual. The initial months I call the "crush" phase where I'm getting to know him, is there any potential there, or is he just unrequited love/crush. After that it may develop into more...

jennifer_bloom · Answer

It takes at least 5 months for me to trust somebody and once I trust them - falling in love is easy if we have similar values and I consider them attractive.

mT2359 · Answer

U make it sound as if 3-4 months are required for you to get used to a person in your life. Presumably, any person who sticks long enough to cross the 90-120 days on your life will make you get used to that person (one-sided or not). Otherwise, a time limit make sense for a microwave, notfor crystalising emotions such as attraction, infatuation and ultimately getting used to a person's vibe and energy in your life. If u r lucky enough, the person might feel the same before your timer sets off, otherwise Bad Luck... tines up... tine for the Next person to show up...

surebruh · Answer

My emotional reply is it happens very quickly. Mentally when I think about the different stages required to see compatibility I think closer to 1 year to know if its love

Kaneki05 · Answer

Limerence can happen right away for me. But actual love half a year or a whole year really. Because I need to wait until my limerence leaves to know.

Vikkrram · Answer

For me it take time , but once if i had fallen then it's hard for me to fall for second one

Anemone978 · Answer

I can get attached to someone really easily and fast but I am slowly learning what love really is.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Takes months for me. Last time, it was 8 months of us talking. ✨

lifeamystery · Answer

Love is hard to come by and time is long. I would have to state love is an unconditional feel. I think of love is and endless feeling. so 3 to 4 months is not enough to define as love.

Rosexøxø · Answer

As soon as I know that we’re compatible, and we both begin bonding.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It all depends & it’s usually lust at first & love & I mean love comes over time.

SnowedIn · Answer

I've had it happen in a week and other times months.

Still-alive · Answer

i fall hard im the beginning when im really into the person... then really love em over the course of a year or so. i got to stay in contact with them however.

Sam2Iam · Answer

I agree 3 to 4 months. Also depends on how much time you spend with the person too.

JosyJosy · Answer

Weeks or months depends on the person and the time spent.

sassyredhead · Answer

Took me about 6 months as we were both really busy

TrillXHippy · Answer

It will take me a lot longer than 12 months

bigpauly · Answer

Probably about the same. A couple months sounds about right.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

3 to 4 months sounds about right ( For serious daters )

Passing_by · Answer

Took me 2 months. But that's the only love I've had

Nikki1989 · Answer

A few months usually.

MrCommodore · Answer

Probably 4 months to realise it

IAMNathanael · Answer

Dunno. I've never fallen in love with anyone

SphynxUK · Answer

It totally depends on the person.

Summeroflove · Answer

This totally depends

LiamJHayden · Answer

Unknown. Have not yet done so.

SpokenTruth · Answer

For me, it comes at a glance.

LavLavLuv · Answer

0.1 sec No jk, I don't know tbh

Preeti161101 · Answer

It can happen in first sight 🙂

Paulychicagoluv · Answer

Shoot, that'll never happen.

OddBeMe · Answer

Don’t think there’s a set time, even per person.

BLP11520 · Answer

Me too about 3 to 4 months

DerkR · Answer

2 years ago lol

RoastedToast · Answer

Over a year 😅

collie22 · Answer

5 minutes

moonpie89 · Answer

Few months

Nominal · Answer

1 min.

How long does it take for you to fall in love with someone?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said