Guys, how long does it take for you to fall in love?

[FlutteringFeelings]

I heard the saying that most guys aren’t quick to catch feelings nor fall but once he’s in love than he’s in love love. I was confused so I’m curious when do you guys actually fall in love? Is it 1 month into the relationship? How does it go for you guys?

(Women experiences with their significant other regarding his timeline of knowing he’s in love are welcome to post as well)

Guys, how long does it take for you to fall in love?

[Retep1]

It usually starts at the beginning. Not later on. We get super nervous. To the point we don’t wanna eat much. Sleep. Think. (Being serious)
But 1 month into it should say a lot on its own. We’ve dedicated time to stick around with this person. I mean. Once were that far in, we get creative af lol

[coachTanthony]

For guys it can come quite quick. Men usually know early on because falling in love doesn't need to be perfect it just needs to be true!

[KillerFreddie]

That's, that's pretty fuckin' accurate.

[shimmeryns]

I'm quick to catch feelings, so its easy for guys to make me fall in love if they're doing everything right haha! For that reason, I gotta be careful and guarded.

[Nicole066]

Not much, but i always end up breaking up because all of them are being assholes

[HomeyDuck]

Well I can say, I am usually the one who drags his feet on love. But it is all about the connection. I fell for my current girlfriend VERY quickly. There is no timetable for love. It happens when it happens

[TheWormGuy]

love at first site doesn't exist. that's lust. so it can take a short time for a man to fall in love with someone. it could be after a few conversations or after months or years of hanging around each other.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the interaction and attraction.

If you're attractive and you hit it off then it could be very quick.

If you're more toward average and it takes time for you to establish a vibe then it could be a while and it probably comes down to some chance interaction that happened to be very positive.

The connection is probably the more significant factor but basically it's a mix of attraction and connection.

[TotoCow]

Depends on the girl, the more we have in common the more quickly I fall for her. But sometimes I don't have feelings for them. Most quickly for me was a week.

[Piteka5]

We met in what, October 2017? I have no idea when I realized it but by May I was into her and we were already great friends, but, our relationship only got really official a couple weeks ago

[coolbreeze]

It varies some people fall in love fast and some people never do. I had more crushes more then falling in love heads over heels type of thing.

[Balcazaurus]

Wouldn't know.

Never been in love before.

But I imagine it takes time like all good things, right?

[JBarbs]

Very easily within a few weeks to a month, i dont like how attached i get

[Dankster96]

4-5 years ago, it could be within a month or so. Now that my paranoia's worsened a lot, probably infinity time.

[Travis_Skyles]

From my (one time) experience it's either as soon as I meet the person or not at all.

[Yatagurusu]

About a week I reckon. If I don't have a crush by that point (like a week of strong interaction) I never will

[Scarecrow13]

Usually a couple months at least. In fact I have to know you a bit first and it takes me a while to make friends.

[rievious]

Honestly for me I can't tell. It's completely random. Or if there is a pattern I can't see it

[ben_wight]

It depends how often you meet the girl you want. In my case, about 1-2 months. It still lasts. :)

[Lance1965]

I don't think I have ever been in love, not in the real undying love sense.

[Swordnen]

For me it might take over 7 months
Coz I should be trust the person I am spending my love on

[Cage4]

For me its everytime i get to know more about her personality

[TheSpartan]

Very quickly—a couple weeks at most. It’s a massive weakness of mine that I seek to remedy.

[Dbdjdjfnfn]

Not sure.

I'm 31 and only one woman in my 15 years of dating experience ever made me feel that feeling. Its a rare thing.

[Anonymous]

Why would you be in a relationship with someone you're not in love with?