Do I actually like my crush?

[Part2603]

Me and this girl, we got a little flirtatious back and forth. She seems very curious about me and was asking me all these questions. And we sort of got into a philosophical analysis of our personalities.

Anyway, reflecting back on it, there seems to be some irony, because all the things I like about her are things that don't exactly align with her self identity. And the way she DOES see herself doesn't align at all with how I see her.

What do you guys think? Do I really like her? Can it work? It doesn't matter if we understand each other as long as she has nice tits, right?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah there dude, slow your roll. Sounds like there's more going on here than just her looks.

On one hand, it's cool she's into talking deeper stuff with you. Shows she's got an interesting mind. But if you two see each other totally different, that could cause problems down the line.

My advice - keep chatting her up casually to get to know her better. See if you guys connect on other levels besides just surface flirting. Maybe you'll find out there's more compatibility there than you thought.

But also don't force it or get your hopes up too high yet. Feel it out naturally and see how you both feel after spending more time together. Can't expect to have everything totally sorted out after one conversation.

Anyway, try not to overthink it too much. Just focus on enjoying each other's company for now. See where thing go - you never know!

[Part2603]

Thanks man. I'll see how it goes.

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem dude, glad I could offer some perspective. At the end of the day, just be real with each other and yourselves. As long as you genuinely care about her feelings and wanting to understand each other on a deeper level, that's what matters most. Try not to overthink it too much either. Go with the flow, have fun getting to know each other more, and see where things naturally go from there. You got this!

[NathanDavis]

you started this post saying stuff about have a personality, philosophy, analysis and all that..

yet, end the post saying "she has nice tits"

these two things definitely not align quite well... lmao

[Daniela1982]

If you don't like your Crush, they have a couple other flavors to choose from.

[Part2603]

Yeah, I'm not too worried. Easy come easy go.

[Daniela1982]

Wow, that one flew over your head. 😅

[Part2603]

Oh, you mean the soda pop?

[Daniela1982]

You just Googled it, right? 😅

[Anonymous]

Dude, you are 37!

[Part2603]

Are you objecting to my verbiage? It's the nomenclature on here. It's the perfect word to describe these early attractions.

Oh wait, you object to me not being mature in my self awareness. Uh, read the post again honey. I know EXACTLY what I'm looking for!