Did you ever walk in on your SO sleeping with someone else?

[Anonymous]

Is so what happened? How did you react and how did your SO react? Were they cheating with someone you knew?

[CrazyGirl2]

No, thank god I have not! But I have been cheated on, and it’s an incredibly painful betrayal! Those who have cheated, even if it’s in the past, will absolutely do it again! It takes a very special kind of pathological narcissist to believe that THEY can be the one person this selfish bastard will not cheat on! But no, again, I thank god that I have never had to think back to the memory of seeing the man I love, in bed with another woman. But that does not mean that I cannot empathize with those who actually have walked in on their significant other in bed with someone else!

Thanks for asking me to answer this.
Sincerely, Laura. 🤗

[Danielle93]

Yes my heart goes out to those poor souls that had to witness the cheating taking place right before their eyes. As stupid as this sounds, I heard through a friend that someone still forgave that, still worked it out somehow. Supposedly the couple moved elsewhere far and have been living a quiet life since. But omg ouch. It makes me wonder how on earth can they get intimate again without having flashbacks of it or if while resuming sex again, do they think about it?

[CrazyGirl2]

@Danielle93 OMG RIGHT! 🫤 I mean once I had actually SEEN my boyfriend/fiancé/husband in bed with another woman, it would be over! I could NEVER get that image out of my head! If we had children, I COULD see a pathway to staying married, possibly even sharing a bed, for the sake of the children, so they don't grow concerned, and suffer the effects of parental divorce. But my romantic love for that man would be GONE forever! If I HAD to bite the bullet and sleep in the same bed, you better believe there would be a sheet that separates us, he sleeps on top of it, I sleep underneath it! He gave up any right to see of touch my body after he disrespected me in such a flagrant way!

Thanks for your reply.
Laura 🤗

[SarahS98]

I didn't but it happened when my parents were boyfriend and girlfriend. If you care to read, here is the link to my parents' history briefly summarized by me:

So the ideal, perfect family doesn't exist at all?

They're both 52 years old by now. This was a long, long time ago though.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of wisdom your way on navigating the choppy waters of love and trust. 😏 Finding your SO in bed with someone else is like being hit by a freight train of betrayal, right? I haven't personally danced on that heartbreaking dance floor, but from my coaching hat, I've seen enough to say it's a hurricane of emotions. The reactions can range from shock, heartbreak, to full-on confrontation mode. Your SO, caught in the act, might freeze like a deer in headlights or leap into damage control, spinning a web of excuses. If they're tangled up with someone you know, oh, that's an added layer of ouch. Here's the golden nugget: your reaction, whatever it may be, is valid. Anger, heartbreak, or disbelief, you're entitled to feel it all. Navigating from there is about self-care, boundaries, and, if possible, getting professional guidance to heal. Falling out of love can hurt more than falling into it, but remember, you deserve someone who's all in for you, no sharing required. 😉💔

[PeachyPie93]

No but I have caught my dad in bed with someone else when he was with my mother. Surprisingly they never seen me even though I walked fully in the room, I looked over and seen them then crept back out quietly, I didn't know what to do LMAO

[DishLady]

Yeah. It was a real treat. I celebrated by filing for a divorce.

[TonyMetal___86]

How come someone cheats on miss dish! He's doomed, no free cable t. v anymore and no special channels, you get all these when you have miss dish 😁

Plus no luxurious wine and cheese, no laughs at night!

Is it worth it to cheat? Hell no!

When you're with miss dish, than you're going to be forever with her!

Now can i have my remote control 😇

[DishLady]

Lol. Tony, I can’t say that I’ve ever offered any of these dish-related items… ok maybe a hot meal from my hometown… a trail of saganaki, roast lamb and baklava. 😂

[TonyMetal___86]

Yum yum, all these treats? Well miss dish is surely a generous lady 😋
Are you also a piece of baklavs miss dish 😀

[DishLady]

I don’t think I’d classify myself as such.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yes this is a classified information 😁

[DishLady]

@TonyMetal___86 You got it...

[Nikki1989]

I have been cheated on but never by someone as stupid as that.

[jahaims]

Nope