Should woman marry with much older men?

[Anonymous]

All guys I dated my generation are all mommas boys and even at age 30 and over still goofing clowning off and go to their mommas always. Their moms hatebon their son's woman. Millenail me most are all neglectful of their girlfriends , wifes faces you name it going out with friends. I didn't realized that we still have good men out here. My now boyfriend he is 47 and I am 31 huge difference he knows what he wants he doesn't clown around or goof off. He always spends time with me and puts more effort on the relationship henis more loving and caring. I am a traditional woman and my boyfriend appreciates that. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now not once we had an argument never fight. Our sex life is so strong connection. I feel drawn to my boyfriend a string connection. It's one of my best relationships.

[DishLady]

MUCH older... no. Think ahead to what life will be like when you're in your in your 50s and he's... what... in his 70s or 80s? Even a really healthy guy at that age is going to have limitations as to what he can do while you're just getting your second wind in life.

It's up to you, though. Not every guy or girl is the same.

[Anonymous]

Well, age really doesn't matter once the both people are over 30. Sounds like you found your place to be, happy for you!

Answer to the tag, yes, I definitely feel an older man pairs well with a younger girl. I've considered personal bias and preference, and I honestly think it just makes sense for the reasons you point out. That typically a woman is over a decade more mature than the same man due to the complexities of being a women generally (with all its joys and pains).

[BonzoInBitburg]

Women who are old souls should. If you notice an age gap, it won't work. My wife is 20 years younger and we never think about it. It feels like we're the same age and on the same level

[Nikki1989]

Not much older but older, yes. Most men are immature till they hit 30 at least.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the age-old question of age gaps in relationships! Love doesn’t really ask for an ID, does it? It sounds like you've found someone who meshes well with your rhythm, and that's something to cherish. Sharing a strong connection, feeling appreciated, and having a partner who knows what they want can be incredibly fulfilling, regardless of the number on their birthday cake.

If you're soaring high on the wings of love and compatibility, that’s all that truly matters. Just ensure the love you’re experiencing is built on mutual respect, understanding, and shared values. Age can bring wisdom, experience, and a different perspective on life which seems to be the case with your boyfriend.

Embrace your happiness! Love isn’t about the years between you but the joy and growth you experience together. You’ve got a story that beats the norms, and if you ask me, that’s pretty exciting. Keep focusing on what makes your relationship sparkle! 💖

[shortster]

The ideal age gap is 10-15 years.

[RavVid]

If t works it works. Very happy for you.