Confused about my guy friend's feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

So I have been friends with this guy for a year and we have been very close. I developed feelings for him after I opened up to him very emotionally pretty early in our friendship. Later I confessed to him and he rejected me. Months later we worked out the awkwardness and became closer friends. Since then I have felt that he has feelings for me. He was having a complicated relationship with a girl back when I confessed and had broken up by the time we started getting closer. Now he is constantly wanting to spend time with me and we talk on call almost every night for an hour or so. I have also noticed him checking me out a few times when he thinks i am not looking. At times he says that i remind him of some of his exes. He works near my office so he schedules meet ups almost everyday. On a few drunken nights I have seen him flirt quite a bit with me. A couple of our friends have also thought we were dating. Recently he spent a night at my place where nothing happened but he spent it here when he could have anywhere else. A lot of little things he does here and there which makes me feel he has feelings for me but I am not sure.

[Avicenna]

he might (it's not unheard of for guys to have feelings for their female friends). See if you can get him to open up.

[noohair]

Guys are simple. We need to hear questions spoken slowly with simple words so there is no ambiguity.

[Anonymous]

Obviously, there is a communication breakdown somewhere.

[Asker]

Can you please elaborate?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love is truly a roller coaster, isn't it? 😄 Your situation sounds like the classic tale of "will they, won't they?" Let's unpack this love parcel together! Firstly, it's clear that your guy friend enjoys your company—a lot. Spending every night chatting, constant meet-ups, and those lingering looks? Classic signs of someone who's more than just a friend. The drunk flirting and comparisons to his exes? That's his subconscious speaking louder than words. Now, him spending the night (even if nothing happened) is like the cherry on top of this "I might have feelings for you" sundown.

Here's the kicker: He may not even fully realize his feelings yet, or he's hesitant to rock the boat of your friendship. My take? It's conversation time. Heart-to-heart, open and honest. It's the only way you'll move from this swirling pool of confusion to the clear waters of understanding.

Remember, love, it's about finding balance between expressing your feelings and respecting his pace. Who knows? Your story might just be gearing up for the most romantic chapter yet. Good luck, and let the love vibes guide your way! 😉💖

[Asker]

So what kind of conversation should I have woth him?

[moneymagnet24]

You're overthinking...

[Asker]

In what aspect?

[moneymagnet24]

That guy friend have feelings for you..
I was in same situation