If A Judge in Your own State has given both parties in the court hearings With " No Contact with either party by any way " said the Judge to both?

[starfoxxy64]

I had been involved with a ex boyfriend which was actually cheating on me with another female which she was a Gold ⛏️ lied about losing her 4 different own and had only want to use him for his so called money. And then after getting her ways of those 4 rings engagement rings which she had actually messaged me on my personal face book telling me and how she and my ex boyfriend aka " Her Ex-fiance " broke up and that she told me that he got what he deserves by how she had placed a Order of protection against him also known it the ex-boyfriend which at this time , She had her own friend my ex boyfriend message him and called him up personally to her apartment where he was arrested by the police even though she had already went through to get the order of protection that same afternoon. He then got there and set up or at least the police got their way too fast which I don't know how much of she is lying about. Since he never could even be able to hurt me because he was using his friends when he had actually used the pretending that our dates and Fridays of bar karaoke nights were going to be normal 💔 he had let his males own friends to force themselves on me yet he actually never stopped any one of them yet I went to report afterwards this all this with him & he accused me of being unavailable to handle my alcohol and it was my issues & fault for acting like a fool. Which I told him to take me to the police the station ! He had been trying to protect how he was actually cheating so I was thinking about if any females were just also had been victims/survivors wouldn't they think to help another fellow woman or person? That same female who is that same domestic violence figure of my ex-boyfriend or should say ex-fiance of hers actually told me she wasn't going to help me and that's not my problem she said which I kind of told her I thought she wanted to be friends since that's how she started texting me &messaging me about how she got him arrested my ex-boyfriend

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the stormy seas of past relationships and legal entanglements reminds us that sometimes people aren't always the liferaft we hope they'll be, especially in situations as turbulent as yours. Let me paint you a picture: In the gallery of your experiences, you've encountered a scene that's more convoluted than a plot twist in a soap opera. This other woman, once seemingly an ally in your shared narrative of betrayal, turned out to be an island unto herself, leaving you adrift in choppy waters.

It's a harsh reminder that shared experiences with someone, especially negative ones, don't always forge bonds of solidarity. It seems she saw an opportunity to leverage her experiences to her advantage, leaving you out in the cold when it came time to extend a helping hand.

In navigating these waters, remember, darling, your worth isn't defined by the actions (or inactions) of those who disappoint us. It's more about hoisting your sail and finding your way to calmer seas, perhaps with more trustworthy companions this time. While it's disheartening she chose not to aid you, it's a potent reminder that the only behavior we can control is our own. Moving forward, focusing on healing and building a support network that uplifts and aids you in times of stormy weather will be key. Remember, in the gallery of your life, you're the artist, and you decide who contributes to the masterpiece that is your journey. ✨

[starfoxxy64]

That other female actually never was even a friend or anything in the life she actually was a homewrecker and actually had been disrespectful towards me and had been such disgusting words for a woman when her own self is a female which makes no sense and she even had been calling a ' C ' words and talking about how I look and was actually such a disgusting person about how she disrespected his own whole family since I actually had met his whole family and mother at the darkest moment right after and at his father's funeral service which I was very concerned how I would be able to help him with his lose after that yet he actually told his own mother and family after he started only taking 750 days in starting lie and cheated on me with this same female who had had got my ex boyfriend arrested and didn't even care if I was asked if she could help my own personal assault by my ex-boyfriends friends that she was just disrespectful and said she didn't give two cares.

[EmmaMary]

So what exactly is your question?

[starfoxxy64]

Okay I'm sorry if it is very confusing. My question was about If You're a Female who also had been a survivor/ victim from the same perpetrator and you actually got an order of protection against him yet another female is asking for her own help to get her thing against the same perpetrator would you think to help her or leave her on her own dwell in the agony of not getting justice cuz I got worse than what she got?

[EmmaMary]

At times there's an old saying which goes "There's Strength In Numbers"... It might just be an idea to give this some consideration.

[starfoxxy64]

Well when you talk about " strength in numbers " well she does not even want anything to help me even though she has broken the laws in my state which she and the ex boyfriend both know what I have on them which I think is why she is basically being a completely narcissistic and unbelievable female.. which how I guess he had told her everything about me while he was dating her & was actually they were talking about my own father lose of fight to cancer which she tried to play mind games which I never thought to believe any way since I she actually had call me a Cu n t & try putting me down & gaslighting about how I had made him lose the love and so called spark that which started making my ex boyfriend to cheat on him her and how she will always have him

[starfoxxy64]

.😂 it was odd because she was trying to tell that the was just never into me and he was actually talking to her about how I fat. I never thought about how much they should have gotten caught up since by ILLINOIS star laws that 1 she still has processions of the rings which if she calls the engagement off which the rings have to officially go back to the person which I think that means that they're still talking since I caught him both of still trying to reach out even when he was actually flipping out and yelling towards that he has already been told by his own mother & his own lawyer to stay away from Skokie or the town she lives at because she had the order of protection against him in place still..

[starfoxxy64]

I don't understand how this woman doesn't want to respect , help any other woman but if it was her own f*&+$* self 😭, she wants help too. Neve will understand what's in her brain looks fine The judge can hear what she lies cuz I got proof on both of them which I will completely find out how to contact the case person because this is not right which I came from a very toxic relationship with physically, emotionally , and violent ex boyfriend way before this 1 who cheated on me with 2 gold digger homewreckers. Actually who he claims never met the 2nd one yet it was because these are old lady 🤣 no offense to the old 42 years & 53 years old females. it just disrespectful towards my father because my father had actually had The big ♂️ to ♂️ 🪑 down 🤝before he had passed away from cancer in 2017 which I had called my ex-boyfriend & I try to call before I try to O D , I needed him I was so depressed after my dad 💀 he was joke of boyfriend I had be rushed to the hospital he claims he turned off his iPhone for work to 💤

[starfoxxy64]

Sorry for 3 different replies like that is the only way I could try to hopefully help you understand my question and also the reasons why I asked this way of question. Thank you for being kind and knowledgeable too.