How do you know when your relationship has reached it's end?

[Anonymous]

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He broke up with me. He said he is tired and can't do it anymore.

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He just changed his Facebook profile pic of us to himself and it's really sinking in now that it's really over and this shit is hurting so bad.

[DishLady]

1. When you're been frazzled to the end of your wits and the other person is not only running in circles but running backwards to a state of existence when you were practically strangers. It's over.

2. When you find you're dedicating too much time to explaining simple concepts that should be light, happy, romantic and bringing you closer together effortlessly... It means there's no chemistry... Move on.

3. When you light the person up, make them laugh and are their everything, but they do nothing for you, either because the don't know how to progress, or they hold back or they're just lazy. You deserve better. Move on.

4. When toxicity levels automatically trigger a stress migraine, anxiety attacks or land you in therapy. Time to go.

5. When one person lays a hand on the other person for any reason other than a loving hug or caress. Yippee-Ki-Yay, Motherf****r.

[luvstoned4him]

The arguments increase for e. g 5 in one week etc

The relationship becomes toxic e. g you try to to hurt them or visce versa etc ( can also include Physical, Emotional, Mental or Verbal Abuse)

Ton of cheating with no remorse

Lack of Respect

You no longer feel a sense of joy, happiness or inspiration when around them

You feel lonely with each passing day

They no longer do the little things to show they care

They no longer care about your feelings, dream, plans etc

Your mental health begins to deteriorate

I am sure there are more but these are ones I can think off the top of my head

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker thanks for mho

[Asker]

You're welcome!

[AI Opinion]

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[Finchie40]

When there is no more compromising and constant arguing and fighting with each other , when you no longer prioritize each other , and the relationship becomes one sided , basically their way or no way. Mainly when you both point fingers at each other before pointing fingers at Yourself first thinking you are never wrong , always right. A partner should bro g happiness into your life , not constant misery

[Vesuvius87]

It has reached its end when you're both incompatible on important areas, the communication has decreased and sex is taking over too much of the relationship, making you think it's love when it isn't.

[Asker]

Thank you. That helps a lot.

[Vesuvius87]

You're welcome

[AviatorTom]

For us guys, it's usually when she tells us it's over, though occasionally we come to that conclusion ourselves... when it's no longer fun to be around her.

[ohsheeT]

When you say enough is enough and I'm not going to take this crap no more and you walk out the door

[molonski2]

Its all about communication when you think about it , one way or another , but In answer to your question , I'm not sure I really do know , unless its just utterly silent or so obvious..

But , I think when the communication stops , the interest is gone , its over , its clinical , its all just too hard , and you just no longer wish to put in that effort.

[Anonymous]

When you look at everything they say and do over a period of time and honestly determine that there is no love or consideration in anything they do.
And that you absolutely cannot see a way forward or to a place where you could get back to where you once were.
Unfortunately not every relationship has the strength to survive. It may have failed for genuine reasons. You and he may have tried your absolute best.
Sad. Take the learning and heal.

[SweetJoyGirl]

When the guy is dry. You will notice the signs.

[TommyMountainFigure]

That's easy. When I look around and she's not there, with all her belongings gone too!

[Fanfare690]

If you've tried to make things work and they just don't anymore. There's no common ground

[HalalCabello]

When he shows he is tired of you entirely and ignores you every chance he gets.

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask, it has.

I'm a firm believer in equal effort. If she's unwilling to put forth equal effort, it's time to move on.

[Crazzyyworld]

It seems like everyone is destined to be alone

[midnightcavern01]

When you start questioning if it has

[Danny_dan92]

The happiness is gone

[Asker]

That's the thing. I feel happy when we talk but I feel sad when we don't get to talk. We're long distance. So I'm not sure what to do. I just know I can't keep feeling like this.

[Danny_dan92]

You’re long distance?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Danny_dan92]

I see. And have you ever not been long distance?

[Asker]

No we've been long distance since we got together but we do get to see each other once a month at least

[Danny_dan92]

See each other through a screen? That doesn’t count. Look, LD relationships are known to not work out. And the reason being is because the heart grows found from lack of physical contact/intimacy.

The only way a long distance relationship will/can work is if the relationship eventually becomes. Close distance.

[Asker]

No we physically see each other each month sometimes twice a month but we're trying to close the distance. It's just hard in this economy.

[Danny_dan92]

Understandable. Hang in there

[Asker]

Thanks

[jack1924]

Less communication or more arguments

[jack1924]

Just forget and move on

[Asker]

Easier said than done. But thanks.

[jack1924]

Fill your time with different things, it will take time, delete whatever reminds you of him.

[Asker]

Ok I will!

[Luckycharms12]

Don't spend quality time together any more sex

[ballıbörek01]

When I am silent deadly silent...

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm so sorry. 😢

[Asker]

Thank you 😭

[noohair]

The Dead End sign.