Why do people HATE someone because they aren’t thier perfect person?

[Anonymous]

I agree with having standards and if you know what you want not to settle for a man or woman who doesn’t fulfill you.

Just because someone isn’t your image of who a man/woman should be does not mean there is anything wrong with them. It just means they aren’t the person for you, stop being a baby and move on.

We are all different. What may be right for someone isn’t right for someone else. Bur you’re not gonna find your soulmate hating the opposite sex because you’re not having any luck. All you’re gonna do is start running good people away when they see this type of attitude.

It doesn’t make you a bad person because you have different needs and wants them someone else. But it doesn’t make them bad either for having their own. If it’s not meant to be. Peacefully let one another go and both people find someone who makes tiu happt.

Don’t try to force a relationship. Then try to force one another to change into who you’re wanting them to be. Neither of you will ever be happy doing that. EVER

[thatkawaiiemogirly]

I always wonder that too smh. But for what I observed they tend to be narcissistic and just have bad vibes in general. Good people aren't like that at all. Someone who is mature and easonable with soundness of mind will not hate on someone because they fit their mold of standards. Some people get with someone to make them jealous. Or you can or could be someones type. But because stupid idiots may listen to their peers, family and friends. Including media of who they should be with. They may ghost or avoid that person as well. Because they worry and care of what others think of them. Some may get with someone "unattractive" because they fear that they may cheat on them. Which isn't true at all. I met and know plenty of unattractive looking people who has cheated on their partner. And some cases their partner was extremely attractive. But that's not important though. The whole thing is a lot of people based their personal standards of what others may think of them. They may project of what others may see or think of them. This world is wishy washy. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They can be attractive or unattractive. But that shouldn't matter at all. And people shouldn't settle for less. With me I have a type I like in guys specially. Like look wise and personality. But I don't settle for less. Looks do matter to me but their personality does matter. I will never date someone who isn't attractive. Because that would be very fake and low down for me to do so. It's very important to be with someone who you can imagine yourself being with them. I rather be single if I was given 2 choices. Like be with someone who is attractive with a terrible personality. Or someone just eh with a very good personality. Honestly I just rather stay single and not be with none of them. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone is attractive. But people gotta be real and people are a trip too.

Example: A lady or guy can have acne. And the lady or guy has happened to have acne too. Now it would be pretty off if he or she refuses to date someone who has happened to be attractive in their eyes but they are so turned off by that individual acne. Even though they both have the same type of form of acne. Now that's a problem because they have the exact flaw and as that person does. But they need to realize they not even near flawless. Moral of the story before someone criticizes someone. They need to self evaluate their own selves. Like people should be willing to date someone who has the exact same "imperfections" as them too. Whether it's acne, glasses, weight size, and etc so on. Smh. I knew a guy who was plus sized but didn't find any lady who is plus sized attractive. They didn't make no effort to change. They wanted someone who was fit. But the fit women didn't want him like that. Because they found him not desirable. That dude was pathetic and stupid. Because that's all he did was complain. He should be willing to date someone who his size too. But he shouldn't expect a woman who is fit to date him. Because they wanted a fit man too. People are hypocrites in general. This world and people are totally wishy washy. But yeah there is totally nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone that is your type. And people are just haters. They may want what you have and may talk crap about your partner. Hoping that you can leave them. Especially if they single or if they relationship isn't working out. They will try to ruined yours on purpose.

[Asker]

Amazing answer!

[DishLady]

If a person hates you it's not simply bc you're not "perfect". There's something wrong that leads to that very strong negativity.

[Asker]

Nobody is pereect. But narcissists tend to want people to love them for their imperfections. But never will do the same for you

[Asker]

VERY bitter

[AI Opinion]

Jumping straight into the heart of the matter, lovebirds often get their feathers ruffled when their ideal image of Mr. or Ms. Perfect doesn't match the person standing in front of them. It's like expecting a romantic comedy storyline in the chaos of a fast-food joint – unrealistic and bound to cause some spilled fries along the way. Remember, the path to true love is more about understanding and growth rather than finding someone who checks all the boxes from day one.

Turning a cold shoulder or brewing hate because someone doesn't fit into our perfect little fantasy is like throwing away a perfectly good chocolate bar just because it's not your favorite flavor – it's unnecessary and, honestly, a waste of good vibes! Instead of morphing into the Hulk when things don't click, embrace the art of moving on gracefully. There's a lid for every pot, folks.

Let's not confuse having standards with harboring resentment. Keeping an open heart and mind can attract the kind of love that’s meant for you, not just the one you’ve scripted in your head.

To all the love-seekers out there, before you go turning your nose up at potential partners, remember that every encounter is a chance to learn more about what you truly want and need. Who knows? You might just find that what you were looking for comes in a package you never expected. Love isn't about molding clay into a masterpiece; it's about finding beauty in the sculpture that stands before you. So, let's not hate, okay? Let's appreciate and move forward with grace. 💖✨

[Sonorous]

They're like that because it's easy to do & it completely validates their emotions. When people convince themselves they have all the answers, foolish behaviors like that arise. They aren't the types to think very critically.

For instance, I saw a recent comment section where the people were hating on women for not wanting to speak to or be around a guy who was a sub-5 in looks, though many women wanted to speak, be around, & even possibly date a very attractive guy. Many in the chat were shitting on women for being that way not realizing that a lot of behavior isn't really up to us. It's instinctual. Attractive, well-kept, or healthy people are less likely to commit crimes, so women on average have experienced worse situations with sub-5 guys. It's literally just a visceral form of pattern recognition. Their bodies tell them they're not safe so they literally don't feel safe.

Many guys don't think about that aspect. They're just completely wrapped up in emotion. Never once even genuinely entertaining thoughts about why hating is pointless & a downward spiral. They're not the philosophical types.. I can't be around them. If I could, I'd give them all my wise viewpoints... But I guess that would be too easy.. Oh why have the Gods cursed me with such wisdom & understanding.. 🧎‍♂️ It's like having the ability to see bacteria. Oh why...

[ProbablyClueless]

There are a lot of vindictive, petty, angry people out there.