What's an unconventional trait you find attractive in a partner?

[HawkPerception]

Some examples would be radical honesty, highly detail-oriented thinking, extreme minimalism, unconventional problem solving, unique personal rituals, strong nonconformity, distinctive communication styles, etc

[DizzyDesii]

Will defend me in public no matter what. Correct me at home if I’m truly wrong. But I want a guy who has my back. My “friends” and family never made me feel protected as they believed randoms over me and now they feel “sooo awful” realizing I was telling the truth. I’ve also had very few exes who stood up for me especially when it came to their family or friends interfering. At most, they’d standup if they felt threatened by some guy. But yea i want someone who defends me to the core as I would defend them. I do feel dumb having defended some exes who turned out to be as twisted as people say. But when I love hard, I defend hard unless the trust is broken. I want that reciprocated

[Dongie]

I like your name. It's especially catchy being for a girl. If it's your real name and I think it is.

[DizzyDesii]

@Dongie lol Desi is my name. Dizzy is how im often feeling with my clumsy self

[sage2021]

A guy that actually gets to know me through and through and is sincerely interested in me and what makes me tick. He stays long enough to ask all about and this takes years, not just a few days, a few questions.
My boyfriend that passed away last year did that with me. He was very intense about knowing the real me.
He even read some of my poetry and commented how great it is.
He loved all of them.
So, he gave me the idea to write my opinion here.

RIP Patty ❤️🧸

[sage2021]

Thank you 😊 for the MHO

[Dongie]

Pays attention to me as tho what I'm saying is as important as anything else she could hear ever.

[HawkPerception]

Great answer!

[Dongie]

Really? Thanks.

[MicahRaine]

She doesn't care what other people think of her/us.

[MicahRaine]

To me that's really attractive because I know she's really prioritizing us and not just doing things for looks

[ChillNsweet32]

I love it when a man is stubborn, I also like the bad boy types, I always have and probably always will

[TheLimeNan]

Not sure if this counts but I like a girly girl, someone I can protect. But not helpless.

[Charliefretz329]

I like the tomboy touch

[Simslover92]

Being random and weird at odd times.

[dragoblack]

Passionate about her hobbies and interests.

[HawkPerception]

Hmm... wouldn't exactly call that unconventional, but I agree that's attractive

[dragoblack]

From my experience in dating, women don't like to talk about their hobbies & interests, let along be passionate about them. Normally the reaction is they lose complete interest, or just say i go to work then go home... which usually translates to "I'm not interested in you anymore and don't really want to be here" or "i dont have time, energy or money for hobbies and interests"