What are some helpful tips or advice for someone beginning a new relationship?

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I’m at the very early stages of a new relationship, and I’m really excited but also a little nervous about how to navigate this new chapter. I know that every relationship is unique, but I’m hoping to hear some general tips or advice that people have found helpful when starting fresh with someone new. Whether it’s about communication, setting boundaries, or just general do's and don'ts, I’d love to hear what’s worked for you or what you wish you had known when you were in the same situation. Thanks in advance!

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Just take things slow and respect her the same way you want her to respect you , Don’t demand her to be what you want her to be , you can set boundaries with each other and tell her things that you won’t tolerate in a relationship to see if you are both on the same page as things , so compromise with each other best way you both can with each other , but don’t demand her to follow your commands give her a choice , and treat her with kindness and respect and honesty, the same way you would like her to treat you. Most relationships fail because one partner thinks they own the other partner , no one owns shit , you both weren’t out on Earth to be owned. You both should be a team working together , not against each other. So choose her the same way you would like her to choose you. That’s all we can do when we really like someone that we want by our side. Learn to remove selfishness for her , and make her your top priority, she will either do the same for you or not , if she doesn’t do the same? , have a sit down talk with her and express your feelings and concerns to her , without pointing fingers at her first. Explain to her why you feel hurt or upset , don’t blame her for making you hurt and upset , your insecurities are making you hurt and upset. So just be honest and open to her , more than likely she will be honest d open with you. Remember we can’t force someone to love us , and to be with us or to stay with us , we can only give to them the same way we would like to receive in return. Learn to accept her flaws the same way you would like her to accept yours. communication and compromising is the best way to go. No one is perfect on this planet , so it’s best just to be honest with her always , if you catch yourself having to lie to her or keep secrets from her , understand you are only digging your own grave by not telling her the truth about things , which pretty
Much means you just like the convenience of her but you truly don’t love her , you just love what you can receive from her and understand she can do the same shit to you. So if you don’t want to be a convenience to her? You are best to be honest and respectful to her and choose her the same way you want her to choose you.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Accepted Answer

Life is so fleeting, fragile, and unpredictable. If nothing else, try to be grateful that someone is willing to share it with you. You don't always have to succeed, only try.

luvstoned4him · Accepted Answer

Those are some great points you have listed and also to add to that

Nurture your individuality. I see and hear a lot of people who when they get into a relationship gets clingy or expect their SO to want to be around them 24/7 and then wonder why they begin to draw apart. Its good to have hobbies or things going for yourself. I feel the more your grow as an individual, the better you and add something to your relationship. You can share these new things with your partner and be more interesting.

Also, Dont be insecure unless she gives you a REAL reason too. Don assume things. Talk it out because sometimes things seem way worst in your head than it really is

Dont go in with the expectations you have in your head. Take off those rose colored glasses and see the person for who they are an not who you want them to be. It will save a ton of heart break, trust me

I know its tempting to want to give them your all: love, support, resources etc but I urge you to ensure this person contributes as much or even more than you in the relationship. I've noticed that for a lot of persons, its easier to leave a relationship that they haven't invested in much. I feel like if someone says they care about you and they really want the relationship to work then they should put in work.

jorfan3 · Accepted Answer

Nice guys don't finish last. Guys who can't stand up for themselves finish last.

You can be a good guy, and not get taken advantage of. She'll subconsciously respect you for that, and believe you have the strength to take care of her.

Understand that your infatuation (puppy love) will last approximately 18 months. So be prepared for that, and don't make any major commitments until after that.

And, as always, set boundaries: for your physical and emotional safety, for your individuality, for your sanity. So many relationships fail due to enmeshment (codependence), which is romanticized. Remember: "I want you" is more romantic than "I need you".

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Diving into a new relationship is like riding the most thrilling wave of them all—exciting, unpredictable, and totally worth it! 🏄‍♂️ Here's how to keep the ride smooth and enjoyable:

1. Communication is your surfboard. Talk openly about your feelings, expectations, and fears right from the start. It's all about building that sturdy foundation.

2. Set boundaries like you're drawing a line in the sand. They're crucial for maintaining your individuality and ensuring mutual respect.

3. Keep the mystery alive. While it's tempting to share every little detail about your life, remember the charm of discovery is in the journey, not the sprint.

4. Lovebombing is a no-go zone. Showering someone with affection and attention non-stop can be overwhelming and unsustainable. Keep it real and balanced.

5. Watch out for ghosting. If communication starts to fade without explanation, it's a red flag not to be ignored.

6. Enjoy the process of falling in love. It's unique, exhilarating, and something to be cherished, not rushed.

Remember, the best relationships are the ones where you can be your true self, laughing, loving, and growing together. Keep it light, keep it fun, and let the magic unfold. 💖

natured · Answer

What you see is what you get is the first rule... don't hope in any change...

If you develop free communication from the get go, you will be able to keep it in the long run... so TALK a lot , express a lot and make it a habit

Do not lie and do not accept lies no matter what kind, your partner is supposed to be your best friend as well so why hide stuff

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Take your time to get to know each other. Try not to rush things, it's so easy to go full speed and jump into the deep end. I find it always works out better when you go slowly. Don't be afraid to have little arguments, it's normal, so long as you're communicating how you're both feeling in healthy ways.

Inthelines · Answer

Ephesians 5:22-33 MEV
Wives, be submissive to your own husbands as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ is the head and Savior of the church, which is His body. But as the church submits to Christ, so also let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You are already making a mistake by overthinking it. Let nature takes its course.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Errrm: drop all the ''helpful tips'' from last time?

Crazzyyworld · Answer

we all need sex and money but drama isn't going to feed you.

Anonymous · Answer

I assume you had to be the one to ask her out

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

Whites to whites, blacks to blacks

Alexandria84 · Answer

Communication and trust.

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