Who is more of a Prize in a relationship, The Man or the Woman?

[Finchie40]

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The correct answer is Men , we are the prize. A man’s role is to lead his family , and protect his family , his wife’s role is to support her man and to nurture her man and the kids. Never put your girl on a pedestal, the second you treat her like a celebrity , you look weak to her eyes, you will just become one of her fans. Don’t think for a second, she isn’t running to another man that she looks up to. I have witnessed and experienced this a ton of times. Mark my words

[Apple1996]

In general women are the prize because we create and grow life. Obviously some relationships they don't want kids so then I'd say it's equal. Men providing and leading is bare minimum shit tho just because biologically y'all don't have much else to offer so you have to make up for that somehow

[imtiaz45]

Neither the man nor the woman is "more of a prize" in a relationship—both partners should be seen as equals, each bringing unique strengths, qualities, and value. A healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, love, and support, where both individuals feel cherished and appreciated. Viewing one partner as "the prize" can create an imbalance, leading to issues with power dynamics and self-worth. Instead, relationships thrive when both people see each other as equally valuable, contributing to each other's growth and happiness, and working together as a team to nurture their bond. Both partners are prizes in their own right.

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[ManInChains]

The man because the woman doesn’t do shit in a relationship

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@ManInChains What experience makes you say that? I'm genuinely curious, it just seems like a strong generalization to make, and I'm sure you have a good reason.

[ManInChains]

Men have to chase the woman with fear of being rejected at best case scenario and being falsely accused at worst. And even while in a relationship men are always expected to do everything for her. Pay, drive, work, etc. and all she does is sit around and complain and eventually cheat on him. That’s what happened to me multiple times until I gave up. Haven’t had a relationship in almost 10 years now and haven’t had to worry about any of that bullshit. Being single to me is the prize.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@ManInChains If your age is accurate on your profile, you were 17 last time you had a relationship? Is that right?

I'm sorry that has been your experience; that's awful. I get the appeal of being single, honestly it's easier not having to share decision-making, LOL. I don't agree that women do nothing (obviously I'm a woman, ha), but I hear where you are coming from. I've felt that way observing my married friends husband; she is on duty working her tail off while he plays video games.

[Finchie40]

Why she is allowing that to happen is beyond me , Not saying a guy can’t play video games but if he is choosing video games over choosing her and their relationship, then she needs to kick him the fuck out of the house and find herself a guy that wants to work with her not use her and take advantage of of her. Relationships only work when 2 people choose each other , that work as a team , I will not stay in a relationship neither girl that just sits on her ass and doesn’t lift a finger whatsoever, i will help her pack her clothes if that was the case . So your girlfriend clearly needs a wake up call if she is allowing that to happen to her , it would be one thing if he was actively seeking work and trying to land a job , but if he is just sitting around doing nothing , she has every right to dump his lazy ass. I only date girls’ that want to be a team , that want to work together to share things and experience things together , not only is she my lover she also becomes my best friend if she has my back like I have hers. If she cheats on me or betrays me , it’s over between us period , Sadly a lot of relationships turn one sided because we all have selfishness within ourselves , so if you can’t remove that selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to remove it for you. It needs to go both ways or the relationship is just a waste of time. Basically thank you for a good time but not a long time. Anyone can choose to be selfish only wanting things their way but they will never experience true love with anyone if they can’t remove that selfishness period

[Simslover92]

I think the prize is the wrong word to use. Yes, men are the providers and should be celebrated for what they bring to the table, but calling them the prize just seems a bit much.

[Finchie40]

He is a prize to a girl that stays honest and loyal to him , that doesn’t lie and cheat behind his back. Most me. Will not cheat on a girl that stays loyal and faithful to him , that respects him and loves him and doesn’t hesitate to keep him satisfied in bed. Guys’ mainly cheat on a girl that is complete opposite of what i described. Most guys’ will not commit to a girl to be single. He will become single when she starts treating him with disrespect

[Simslover92]

He is a good man. A worthy man. But calling someone a prize is just again a bit much.

[Finchie40]

Ok a Good Man then

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the age-old question that's as juicy as a gossip column and as complex as a Shakespearean drama! The truth? There’s no universal winner because every relationship is its own unique love story. Think Romeo and Juliet, but with fewer family feuds and hopefully a happier ending. The real prize is finding someone who complements you, challenges you to grow, and makes your heart do a little happy dance every day. Love isn't a competition—unless you're competing to see who can make the other laugh more or who gives the best backrubs! So, in the grand tournament of love, the trophy goes to both partners who bring out the best in each other. Let's aim for a tie; it’s a win-win! 😜❤️

[Nikki1989]

Anyone using the word prize to describe anyone is an instant red flag right there. NOBODY is a prize.

[Simslover92]

I agree 1000%

[ParamountMajestic]

I’m a prize

[DrPepper12]

Anyone who is dating me has won the prize... The kind you find on a cracker jack box. Look it up kids! Cracker Jack's actually gave out some cool prizes back in the day!

[Caroline91]

In a good relationship, each is a gift to the other.

[JosyJosy]

It should be the same, if you don't want the other as much I don't think you should be together

[Taniisokay]

I don't the word "prize". If you found each other then that's a win. You are prize to each other.

[Anonymous]

Men, especially when it's a traditional marriage. We are the one with resources. While she almost never brings anything to the table other than looks.

[HelpfulWoman]

neither. soon as this mindset enters, the relationship is doomed.

[Anonymous]

Seeing your update, it doesn't look like you are the prize.

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[Finchie40]

LOL , yea me being the prize has come to an end , I am pretty much over relationships unless I meet a girl that can actually stay loyal and faithful and knows what it means to be in a relationship that has good moral values and is honest

[Peridot25]

In other words, look at your lady as inferior and treat her as if she doesn’t matter?

[Finchie40]

She matters , but she should never be dominate over her man , Most females’ want to be submissive to her man , she wants to look up to her man and feel safe and protected by him , she wants to know everything is going to be alright , she doesn’t want a man that she feels , she has to raise like one of her children , cleaning up after him , and keep reminding him of doing things that he should already be doing on his own. Most females’ are natural care takers , she won’t mind doing chores around the house if her man is working his ass off to provide and comes home from work and jumps right in taking care of things to give her a break from the kids etc. and doing things that she couldn’t do on her own , she wants a partner , not a child , when she feels she is dominate over her man , and she feels she doesn’t have a partner , she will lose interest in him because she feels like she isn’t loved she feels she is a slave to a guy that just goes to work and that’s it , Most men assume just because he works at a job , that’s all he needs to do, when he comes home he just plops his ass down and watches tv or plays video games , buying her gifts to keep her sappy while he expects her to be his maid. He can think that way all he wants but little does he realize , she is losing interest in him , and don’t be surprised when he is at work and she is jumping into another guys’ arms when he is there. I have been the other guy a bunch of times and when I asked her why she cheated on her husband or boyfriend with me? They all said the same thing , She doesn’t feel like she has a partner , he treats her like a slave or a maid. Yes he provides for her and yes he buys her gifts , but that doesn’t pay for love and connection So yes guys’ put your girl on a pedestal and and praise the shit out her constantly , buy her the things she wants , reward her for being your slave , throw her a bone here and there , but I guarantee she is getting boned or planning to be boned not by you

[Nirmroth]

I dont get what you mean. A relationship needs two people to work or it isn't a rl.

[beefcakebradybatson]

The woman of course because she can bear the children, plus women almost always make a relationship.

[ParamountMajestic]

Men chase girls and girls play games as if they were the prize so I guess girls

[LiamJHayden]

Ideally they are each the prize of the other. If not, I do not know.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

According to the Bible is the woman but that's assuming she's a Godly woman only.

[chrissykerdock]

the woman man is only good as his woman

[NathanDavis]

a lot of prizes are thrown away... so...

[Ladsin2]

9/10 times the woman.

[Dongie]

To me it's the lady.

[jahaims]

Neither

[Walksbehindtherows]

Women of course