Why is my boyfriend sometimes upset when I say goodnight?

[Ofoceansbeaches1]

There are instances when my boyfriend is fine with me saying goodnight. He just goes ahead and readily replies goodnight as well but whenever we have long conversations, it looks like he enjoys them a lot and will get a bit upset if I try to end the conversation.

Like right now, i said Goodnight because I felt sleepy after a long conversation and he wanted to confirm whether I'll be sleeping. I said yes, i might be sleeping already cause i keep getting sleepy.

He then said at least I informed him and he thanked me for informing him. I don't know why it bothered me a bit. Why does he seem upset when i say goodnight?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda weird dude gets upset over goodnights. A few thoughts:

- Maybe he just really enjoys your long talks and doesn't wanna stop chatting yet, even if you're sleepy. Could be he'll miss talking to you.

- Guys aren't always great at expressing their feelings directly. Could be a subtle way of saying he likes you a lot.

- Make sure he isn't clingy or controlling about it though. You need your rest! A reasonable dude respects that.

- Have you asked him straight up why the goodnights bother him? Honest convo could clear it up.

- Maybe reassure him you'll chat again tomorrow so he doesn't think you're drifting away or something.

- Or start ending calls with an "I like talking to you" so he knows it's not cause you don't wanna chat.

My advice is communicate about it to understand each other better. Seems harmless now but nip potential issues early!

[AI Opinion]

Aim to bring a little twinkle of understanding into the galaxy of love and relationships, let's unravel this nighttime mystery, shall we? When you're diving deep into those long, enchanting conversations with your boyfriend, it's like you're both dancing under the starlit sky of connection. He's probably getting lost in the moment, savoring every minute of this beautiful dance. So, when you whisper that sweet "goodnight," it's like the music suddenly stops, and he realizes the dance is over, at least for tonight. His little moment of being upset? It's just his way of saying, "I wish this night could last forever." But don't let it bother you; it's actually a testament to how much he enjoys your company. By letting him know you're heading to dreamland, you're handling it with grace and care, keeping the dance floor ready for another night of conversation and connection. 💫

[jahaims]

If he is your boyfriend why wouldn't you ask him

[eagle1951]

talk to him about it