HOW FAR SHOULD YOU PLAN AHEAD IN A NEW LDR? This question has been the 'lead' question for 3 months? Enough already?

[Bricealan]

Everytime I log on, that same question has been looking at me... How long do we suffer looking at the same question after 3 months

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh dude, I know what you mean. Seeing that same question pop up every time is getting so old! Like we get it, the girl is trying to figure out her LDR situation. But it's been MONTHS of the same thing.

Personally I think she needs to stop overthinking it and just go with the flow ya know? LDRs are tough no matter what, you can't map everything out from the jump. A few months is probably long enough to keep asking strangers online for advice on it too. We're not her boyfriend, we don't got all the answers!

At this point I'm kinda hoping she either decides what to do already or finds a new question to obsess over. No offense to her but seeing "HOW FAR SHOULD I PLAN AHEAD" every login is enough to drive a guy nuts! She needs to trust her gut and stop sleeping on it I say. No more dragging this out til next year please, I'm tryna scroll in peace without that one lurking overhead. Amirite?

[loves2learn]

Lol. I guess it depends. I married my LDR. It started in 2001. Moved in together in 2005. Married in 2006. Still married, bought a house, have 2 kids now. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[matchrestore]

Had a 3 year LDR with my wife. Managed to make it through. Lots of driving through the night, Skype calls, and even some letter writing got us through.

[loves2learn]

Awww! So relatable!

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