Can love overcome distance?

[MLGbreezy]

So I think me and this girl might be falling for each other and wow the way this girl makes me feel is just ugh I can’t put it into words. But there’s just one thing she lives no where near me 😭 , a friend used to tell me all the time that I’m probably not gonna fall in love with any of the girls with my state and I should try looking outside of my state. Bro I fell in love with someone outside of my country 😭😂 but man oh man. I haven’t felt like this in a long long time bro like genuinely happy to talk to this girl the butterflies I get when I talk to her and everything it’s actually amazing. If she lived in my country things would be so much easier but I also think she wouldn’t be the woman she is now cause I would’ve never pulled a girl here the way I did with her ima be honest. But just how she is with me so supportive and caring and she never gets upset even though I’m so used to girl freakin out cause maybe I was a little clingy. Can long distance work though I’ve heard so many just bad things about how it’s doomed from the start and issue with cheating. Unless one of us is willing to relocate but even then I don't know it’s a lot is it even worth it dealings with the girls out here has been so miserable but she gorgeous and she is everything I want in a girl. What’s should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man this is a tough one. Long distance is never easy but from what you describe, it really does sound like there's something special between you two. A few things to consider:

- Communication is key. You'll need total trust and honesty since you can't see each other often. Video chat, call every day, be super open about feelings.

- Make a plan. Discuss how/when one of you could possibly move closer or visit more regularly. Even just having something to work towards can help with the challenge of being apart.

- Connection is important. Find ways to still feel close like watching movies at the same time, sharing playlists, gaming together online. Keep that intimacy alive.

- Set boundaries early to avoid jealousy. Agree what's okay and not okay in terms of going out separately to prevent trust issues down the line.

- Be patient with each other. Recognize distance can be difficult and cut each other slack for maybe not being in the best mood when apart for long periods.

If she really is everything you said and you think she's worth it, maybe it's worth a try. Just go into it with your eyes wide open about the challenges of long distance. As long as you communicate well and have an end goal, love can work from a distance. I say give it a shot if you really care about her bro!

[MLGbreezy]

Thank you very much for your advice I’ve never done long distance like this before but man I haven’t felt like this since I had crushes on girls on like middle school high schools I feel like a kid again gushing over her. Especially with what it took to get to this point she has quiet she big following on her IG page but I think one thing I’m definitely gonna have to work on being patient and trusting. Im so used to dealing with girls out here that when she’s done just genuinely nice things for me I’ve looked at it was serious skepticism and have literally just waited for things to fall apart or not work out for some unreasonable or dumb reason but man she’s proved me wrong every time till now and has told me on multiple occasions that she truly care and likes me she even said she really wants to see me and I’m still in disbelief.

[MLGbreezy]

It’s really the distance thing that’s messing with me cause long term if we really wanted this to work one of us would have to move snd my finances just aren’t where I need them to be. She does travel a lot so maybe she could move closer to me or even to the u. s but I don’t want put that all on her. I’m just not sure if I have the guts to truly make that move it’s stressful but kinda exciting

[Oliverlogan263]

Man that's so dope that you're actually feeling those giddy crushing feelings again! It's always fun to get lost in a new connection, especially when they really seem into you too. Seems like you guys really have something special brewing despite the distance.

I totally get the skepticism too, coming from dealing with not-so-great situations locally. But it really seems like she's proven herself legit so far and wants to make it work. That's huge.

As for the long-term logistics, don't be afraid to have honest conversations about possibilities down the line. Maybe start with her visiting you first to test things out in person before any big moves. No need to rush into moving permanently yet either.

And don't stress dude - have faith things will work out how they're supposed to. Keep communicatin, stay positive and enjoy what you've found. Life has surprises. You never know, things could align to make the distance shorter somehow before too long.

But even if not, love conquers all types of challenges sometimes. As long as you're both willing to try, go with your gut and see where this new adventure leads! You never regret taking a chance on something real. Just relax and let it flow, man.

[MLGbreezy]

Thanks for the advice and reply it seriously appreciate all the kinda wowed and words of wisdom thank you 🙏🏾

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem dude, always happy to lend an ear and try help out a friend. Relationships and girls are complicated enough as it is, never mind adding long distance to the mix. But it really sounds like you might have found something special with this one.

Just keep staying true to yourself, communicate openly with her, and trust that what's meant to be will work out however it's supposed to. Don't put so much pressure on figuring out all the logistics right away. Let things flow naturally. You'll figure it out as you go.

And remember, even if it doesn't work out long run, at least you took a chance on something that had real potential instead of always wondering "what if". Not many people get to experience the kind of connection you described. So just appreciate what you have in the present with her.

You got this bro! Keep your head up. Hit me up anytime if you need more advice or just want to vent. Wishing you both all the best 🤙

[LiamJHayden]

It can. There is at least one song about it. Here is Kathy Mattea's cover of that Ceili Rain song.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NNN8x_Ibeoo

So I stand here and gaze across the ocean
Knowin' that I may not ever hold you
Quite the way I told you
But the distance won't silence my devotion
'Cause I believe there is still a way to reach out
In my heart there's no doubt
Love travels the miles upon the wings of angels
Love finds you, I swear its true
I can love you from here - I'll love you from here.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love and distance, the age-old tale of Romeo and Juliet reincarnated in the era of instant messaging and video calls! 😉 Let me tell you, distance is just a test to see how far love can travel. And from your description, it sounds like your heart has already booked a one-way ticket across borders for this special lady.

Now, let's talk turkey. Can love overcome distance? Absolutely, yes! But, like any worthwhile venture, it requires investment—time, trust, and patience being the currency. It's clear she's already making your heart do backflips, and that's a sign not to be ignored. However, cheerleader routines aside, it’s also essential to ground those feelings with some real talk about the future, including discussions around visiting plans, time zones, communication routines, and, eventually, who might pack up their life in a suitcase for love.

You mentioned concerns about things like cheating and the relationship being doomed from the start. While it's true that long-distance comes with its own set of challenges, trust me, every relationship does. The key is in the communication. Keep those lines open, honest, and as heart-fluttery as they've been so far.

Is it worth it? Only you can answer that. But from the sounds of it, she’s turning your world technicolor in a way no one locally has. So, if you're ready for an adventure of the heart, why not see where this road less traveled by takes you? Just remember, love knows no zip code. And who knows? This love story could be one for the books—or at least a swoon-worthy blog post. Feel free to keep me posted; I'm here for the romance reruns! 💑🌍✈️

[Juxtapose]

Even on a really low income you can save money to fly to Europe if you want if you are smart about it. Distance should not stand in your way if you two are for real.

The only trouble is, you can only really predict yourself and even then only if you are mature and competent. Her actions are going to mostly be a mystery to you until you become extremely familiar with her over decades.

[MLGbreezy]

I here you so it’s really a leap of faith and putting my trust in her

[Juxtapose]

I have flown out to visit multiple people that before then I had never seen it person before. You will be all right.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It certainly does overcome distance, don't you worry about that :)
But I can't really say you chose the easy road here. You will find many testimonies, tips and things to consider using a search engine, LDR is your keyword !

[MLGbreezy]

You’re telling me but man dating out here in the U. S has gotten so bad i honestly thought i was gonna be single forever either the girls suck, the situation sucks or i suck based on the girls interpretations and I honestly wasn’t expecting anything to come out of this situation with this girl especially considering the distance but man am I glad I tried anyway cause she’s one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I was already aware of how much significant she is to you. Your question was extremely clear on this point :D

For the sake of relativity, and even if it's really not the right moment for you to consider this: We all tend to generalise people in dating based on insufficient access to diverse people.

Consider the testimonies and tips you will find, thanks to Internet. You will make use of them. On this complicated path that is long distance relationship 😅