Would you forgive ur partner for telling another person they wish they had met them under other circumstances & they have feelings?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

No. How could you ever. This isn’t about being petty or something like that. This is about knowing that maybe she just settled for you. That you weren’t even her first choice. So what does that mean? The minute things get a little rocky between us she’s going to start talking to him? If she’s able to tell him that that more than likely means she still has feelings for him. Now if they’re not married that makes it a little easier for her to say oh I’m not happy w you anymore to which she could easily move on even if he treated her like a queen.

[HighValue]

No, I'd end the relationship, but by reading your comments it looks like the other woman is the one making the claims. Be careful because women often make up lies and ruin other people's relationships when they don't get what they want, whether that is because she liked him and wanted him for herself and is upset that he turned her down, or that she dislikes him and wants to damage his life. That is a common thing that women do.

[luvstoned4him]

They have feelings?

That's way out of line

I would be peeved but I would question my partner more cause clearly there are some unresolved things that need to get solved immediately

[PeachyPie93]

No since if he is doing that kind of stuff he isn't content with me. So I'd let him go try to find what he's looking for because it's not me 🤷‍♀️

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of relationship dilemmas, aren't we? 😏 Oh, the thrill of potentially forbidden affection! Let's break it down – admitting to someone else that they have feelings and wishing circumstances were different is a bit like saying, "I'm shopping even though my cart's already full." It's a red flag, wrapped in a mystery, inside a riddle.

Forgiveness? Well, it's as personal as your playlist on a bad day. It hinges on context. Was it a moment of weakness, or are we talking about a full-on emotional affair? Relationships are about trust, communication, and commitment. If your partner's heart is doing a little wandering, it’s time for a heart-to-heart.

Consider the nature of their feelings, the intent behind their words, and most importantly, how it makes you feel. Forgiveness is possible, lovebirds do get lost on their way home, but it's crucial for both to want to navigate back to each other. So, are you ready to dive into those emotional waters, or is it time to call it a shore and sail alone? Only your heart knows the compass bearing! 😉

[Asker]

He said she’s lying and she’s crazy but I don’t believe she would randomly make it up for no reason

[Caroline91]

If you are with someone you can't believe, then you're with the wrong person. Or, if you're the kind of person who routinely doesn't believe your partners, he's with the wrong person.

[Zack-Bann]

If things have progressed to the point she’s catching feelings that means we shoulda been over for a while.


I am nobody’s second choice or consolation prize.

[exitseven]

I do not want to ever be somebody's second choice. I would break up with her and find somebody else

[Nikki1989]

There is nothing to forgive. I am not that sensitive or petty.

[monkeymanoohaah]

I try to forgive every wrong doing as Im religious however my relationship wouldn't be continuing with that person

[noohair]

Would have, could have, should have. Bullshit speculation, and it has no value. It is a mental prosess morons do.

[privateanon]

those are two separate statements wishing they met under diff circumstances can mean a lot of things but saying they have feelings is a hard pass

[itsannalee]

No, i would make his wish come true.

[avery58]

Nope, that's already emotional cheating

[DextroShade]

No, that would be a deal-breaker.

[Agape93]

Sure

[jojouzumaki]

Yes, I’ll forgive.

[Anonymous]

No way. Dump them.

[SmileyLady]

Honestly? No.

[jahaims]

Definitely not