Guys, what would you do if your wife was obviously attracted to another guy and stares at him around you?

[Anonymous]

Like, she makes eyes at him all the time kinda thing. And I'm sure it's worse when I'm not around and she sees him. She used to even dress sexy whenever he was gonna be around. And would go out of her way to be around him, even when I tried to take responsibility for the situation, she insisted on going after she got all prettied up for him. She literally never gets dressed up like that for me, and spends a ton of time to get dolled up for him. She toned it way down after I called her out, but she still never dressed up like that for me.

[ManOnFire]

That is seriously bad. She is going out of her way big time to make an impression on him and get him to notice. She's disrespecting your marriage and I hate to say it but I doubt it's going to stop, and may end up in her sleeping with him. If it hasn't happened already.

This is messy because you're actually married. If it were just a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship you could kick her ass to the curb. So I am not really sure what I would do in that situation.

[Asker]

Yeah she used to also not wear her ring for the longest time. And when I convinced her to wear a ring, she found a barely visible one, and even wore it backwards to make it less visible. And at least once took it off when going to be around him. Probably did it regularly, but I only caught it once.

[ManOnFire]

Then it's a lot worse than I thought, and maybe even more than either of us actually knows. I don't know her in full like you do, but I'm gonna go out on a limb and say I think 80% that she is cheating. Hell, he might not be the only one she's messing with either. Women's infidelity is so unnoticed because men believe that their woman just wouldn't do that to him, and countless men have found out they have and went through massive anguish from it.

I would say hire a private investigator, or walk out.

[Anonymous]

Ask her if she wants a divorce.

Ever seen "The pursuit of Happyness"? Where Will Smith's character is told by his wife she's unhappy and he tells her "go get happy".

[Finchie40]

She is probably already banging him , get yourself an attorney and divorce her ass

[Apple1996]

That's basically what 90% of women go through everyday with their man. And we get told to stop being so insecure 🙄

Really tho for either gender wandering eyes is just inappropriate so she's gotta stop

[The_Confusion]

While I never found myself in the position of the poor husband betrayed by his wedded hornfox (a feminine version of a horndog), I think there's a way to reclaim her pussy without acting like a (somewhat) jealous possessive horror cock as it may come across to some. Make one more final blow to her insides, and it might rearrange her good. Here's what I would do...

First, let her know that in plain clothes and no paint, she's not making herself too super distinguishable from dudes, as opposed to when she's all dolled up like a flower pulling in your pollen. But say "that's a good thing". Once she's confused about what exactly you mean by that, you dress yourself into John Wayne Gacy with fake fat, and face mask and everything. Next, see if she allows you to tie her up and sodomize her. If she isn't willimg to, then put on your costume of that other guy she's been dreaming of. Now there can only be 2 outcomes: 1) she doesn't get turned on by the sight, which implies that she does not like him (win). 2) she starts fucking, which means she doesn't need that other guy to be present, just his appearance (win).

3rd outcome doesn't have to be mentioned. She'll just leave, which would be good then, since nothing can be done. Unless you want to try to impersonate some "gigachad" using a muscle suit, or a couple days of dosing on creatine + fast acting roids (which is almost any popular one except for primo, that isn't attached to an ester...) as I know first hand bitches betray their husbands when another dude they saw is more muscular. It's not some alpha beta gammasexual dogpilled fiction, they really seek the biggest dog's boner if the one they received wasn't muscular enough. Roids if done smartly are less harmful than half the other shit we eat, breathe, and medicate ourselves with. What they also do is assist in producing raging boners, which could make it easier to pump someone new, to help erase the traitor from your memory.

[Anonymous]

this is why no-fault divorce needs to be abolished

if you're in a state with at-fault divorce, just let her cheat, have evidence of her cheating, divorce her and you won't get anything from you (fingers crossed you don't get a feminist judge)

[Unit1]

I perceive it, that she's not mine (anymore) and it was just my turn (red pill).

She can go after him. But she can't return.

[Anonymous]

It would make me sad but I'd try to get her to admit it. From there I'd ask if I can be better in bed somehow. If not, then I'd ask for an open/swinging relationship.

[noohair]

Time for a serious conversation with a third person therapist. I don’t think you can hash this out just you and her.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I would ask myself why we stopped being attractive to each other the way we used to

[Staximus]

Fly the coop