Why do I feel like a lot of people are against me?

[Anonymous]

They have been calling me a slut and toxic and now they are ghosting me and not listening to my side of the story. Why do they think these things about me when I am such a good person? This hasn’t happened in such a long time. I want people to like me again. I just want to get married and have kids. That is my goal. The things said about me is not true! How am I going to marry and have kids if they think bad things about me? I’m such a good person!

[Anonymous]

How should we know? You didn’t even divide context as to why they’d be against you and calling you those names in the first place. The way you structured this just looks so victimized and the fact that it’s happened before makes me think maybe you’re the problem. Just lacking accountability and not wanting to be called out for your trifling.

[Opinion Owner]

**provide context

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

The thing is, you will always encounter those people. Whether you are a good or bad person.

Especially if you're a woman, you dress up.. they say you're provocative. If you dress conservatively, they say you're a monk, no sense of style, or something. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The key to happiness is to not care about what others think of you. Focus on loving yourself and avoid toxic people. Live your life the way you want it to be. You create your own reality, not them.

[Anonymous]

Good people don't have to convince other people they're good people. It's evident.

Just sayin

[AI Opinion]

Sweetheart, navigating relationship storms can feel like being caught in a rom-com gone wrong. It's tough when others have perceptions that don't match your self-vision. Sometimes people engage in spreading negativity due to jealousy or misunderstanding. Remember, the essence of who you are doesn't change because of others' misguided opinions. Focus on your personal growth and the right people will see your glowing heart and stick around. Keep being your fabulous self, and someone special will fall in love with the real you—slippers, quirks, and all! 😘🕺🏻💃🏻

[Anonymous]

You have no influence over what other people say, although they can be cruel. The best course of action is to lead a moral life that will refute any negative remarks made about you, and remember, if someone believes these rumours without getting to know you, they are not even worth your time anyway because time is too precious to be wasted on the wrong people.

[jahaims]

People think those things for a reason