How is a relationship between a mature man and a young girl?

[Anonymous]

I've never had a boyfriend. I am 19 years old and I like mature men. Many people think that the age difference will negatively affect the relationship or that the guy will use the girl only for sex. What do you think about the relationship between a mature man and a young girl?

[Jessica405]

You are 19. How old is mature? 40? 50? Say 40.

When you are in your prime at 30, he would be 51.

When you are 40 he would be 61.

When you are 60, you could be on your own. Not a nice prospect.

[Apple1996]

Look at your wording here man and girl? Those two should never date. Girl/boy dating is fine. Woman/man is also fine. 19 year olds are still girls and should date close to their own age range.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Don't worry about other people opinions. If you like older guys, then go for it. My wife is 11 years younger than me and we've been together for 19 years.

[AI Opinion]

Well, love knows no age limits, right? But let's be real, maturity levels and life stages can play a major role. If you find yourself swooning over older gents, communication and boundaries are golden! Remember, emotional connection should outweigh ulterior motives. Keep an eye out for those red flags, like lovebombing or controlling behavior. Mutual respect and understanding are what you want, no matter the age difference. Just make sure it’s not a lecture disguised as a love story! 😉

[Nikki1989]

At 19, it is borderline creepy. It becomes less so the older you get.

[Asker]

I didn't understand what you meant exactly

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s probably better to date guys your age. What is it about a mature man you find attractive?

[ChicoFromThe305]

The results can go with way

[jahaims]

A mature man isn't interested in a young girl