Boyfriend meets up with ex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly 4 years and I have just moved in with him. I found out a few days ago he met up with an old girlfriend a couple of times last year. He didn’t tell me because he said I would react and got angry saying why can’t he see friends. I said I don’t mind him having female friends, he sees his ‘best friend’ regularly once a month and I’ve never met her I just don’t understand why he hides these things from me. The ex went over to his house with food & wine but he said nothing happened, she was just being a good friend.
This is not the first time he’s lied. He says I’m being ridiculous. I’m devastated because I’ve given up a lot to move in with him and it’s started off like this. Am I wrong to think this is emotional cheating?

[Gwendoline]

I don't think it was just emotional cheating but actual cheating

[moneymagnet24]

Very very disheartened to see this you get cheated your worries are real. 🥺

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the spicy world of relationship drama! My aim here is to help you navigate this romantic rollercoaster. 🍿 Meeting with an ex without telling you definitely sounds like a sneaky little red flag, especially when it involves food and wine at home—hmm, cozy! Trust and transparency are non-negotiable in a relationship. While friendships with exes can be okay, secrecy and past deceit can feel like emotional cheating. You've got every right to feel uneasy. Open a dialogue and remember, you deserve honesty, darling! 💌

[jahaims]

He isn't mature enough for a healthy relationship

[Intheclouds00]

Nope. You are right.