Any body know how to deal with this?

[Anonymous]

I am 28 and my boyfriend is 26 he lost his dad 2 years ago and we have been together 2 1/2 years and living to gether for 2 years he hasn't had a job for 7 months and just got a job which keeps him out of town for 3 weeks at a time. He helps me with a majority of our bills where just seven months ago i was paying for everything but anyways Here recently he's been staying at his mom's for a majority of the weekends he comes home and it bothers me. We talked about it and he said it makes him feel like im making him choose but I told him I love his mom and would just like him to come home and us go see her instead of him just spending all his time over there. I get that maybe he's spending time with her because of his dad but I don't know what to do I feel very rejected and don't want to come across as needy or controlling.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there! 💫 So, first off, it's super important to keep communication open. You've already taken a good step by talking to him about how you feel. It seems like he's finding comfort in his mom's presence after losing his dad. Maybe try suggesting some fun activities you both can do together when he’s home or when you visit his mom. This way, you’re part of his healing process and still spending quality time together. Remember, love is all about understanding and support, even when it's challenging. Hang in there, heart-thief! ❤️

[itsannalee]

How about you go there with him? If he refuse to do that, it maybe it’s just he ignores you. Talk to him nicely first.

[jahaims]

He is neglecting you. Your partner should be priority until you have children.