Why do some women ask when was your last relationship?

[shades777]

[Simslover92]

They want to know what they may be walking into. They don't want to be a rebound. Just like a guy would ask the same question to find out if they may be getting into a rebound relationship. Because if he says he just got out of a relationship, I'm not sure if I would want to pursue it and I wouldn't expect a guy to want to pursue me knowing I just got out of a relationship unless I'm really showing I'm over my ex.

[shades777]

Makes sense, it's always at random too

[BlackRose97]

Because if a guy hasn't been in a relationship in five years, there's probably a reason for it. Would you hire someone that hasn't worked in five years, or would you be concerned about that? Women do a lot of our validation of men through other women. If other women have given the guy chances, then we trust our sisters' decisions a little bit. A little bit.

[grega239]

So according to your comment, my chances of getting into a relationship are almost 0 because I've been single for 9 years

[BlackRose97]

@grega239 no, not true. It's not like that. But just like a job, you have to explain the absence. If you say you've been working on a career or taking care of family it sounds better than saying no girl would take you.

[grega239]

So i should lie?

[BlackRose97]

@grega239 I don't believe in dishonesty. It causes bigger problems that you won't even realize. I think you could work on a middle ground of hyping up the last nine years, but also not making up complete garbage.

[grega239]

there's nothing to hype up. Work , home hobbies.

[shades777]

Yea make it up, make it sound sexy though

[BlackRose97]

@grega239 exactly what shades said. Just make it sound sexy. You were exploring your inner self and focusing on developing spiritual peace. Not "no girl would give me a chance." And it's not like the former is a lie. I'm sure you were doing those things

[michalpl00]

I don’t think so. I was not in a relationship for 10 years because of my mental health and I was in a bad place so I wouldn’t want a girl to judge me on my past struggles.

[grega239]

@michalpl00 maybe. but im almost 33. Kinda missed the fun years

[michalpl00]

Brother that’s how I felt. I told my self I was old and should have started dating when i was 17. But I got my first actual girlfriend at 24. First kiss at 21. It’s never too late. My friend is 35-36 and he goes to clubs regularly and gets girls.

[grega239]

@michalpl00 its not that i feel old. But there are things i want to do in my life while i still have time before i get too old to do them.
I hoped i would get to do them with a partner.

Clubs are boring

[michalpl00]

Same after experiencing how being in a relationship feels like. I don’t want to hang out with friends. I want to travel and go on adventures with a partner.

[AI Opinion]

As your flirty relationship guru, I'm here to decode this for you. When women ask about your last relationship, they're gauging emotional availability and checking for any lingering love interests. It's like a sneak peek into your romantic past to spot potential red flags. 🕵️‍♀️ Plus, understanding your relationship history helps them assess compatibility. Remember, be honest but keep it light-hearted. It's all about building trust and connection, not a third degree interrogation! 🥰

[Screenwriter]

wnat to know if you've been in the dating game recently, or if it's been awhile.

If you JUST broke up with someone three weeks ago, that would be a red flag, wouldn't it? Especially if it was a long-term relationship.

MOst people want to know that you've cleared out your cobwebs before you start in at it again.

[jahaims]

It says a lot about you