Has heartbreak made you far more cautious in new relationships? Is there anything you do differently now?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Nope no caution with heartbreak and pain there's a lesson that lesson is no matter what happens you're going to make it through and they're going to find the positive reason to do so because no matter what if it was meant to be it would still be you can't control anybody you can manipulate anybody into loving you is he the real or it's not and why would you even try if it doesn't work there's a reason for it and somewhere down the road that positive will come to you and you will see it and you then you will think that person for doing whatever it is they did to make you walk away because there's something greater and better for you just waiting in order to find that or get that you have to let everything else go because holding on to it does nothing but bring you down hold you down it makes you change when you don't have to it's love if you love yourself first you can get through anything if you don't understand love or who you truly are you're going to sit and waste so much time and you don't have to you say oh well I mean this sounds cold but you have to say oh well LOL and move on if you know how to love yourself you know how to love anybody and nobody can take that from you you have to understand what love truly is and if somebody did something stupid they didn't love you and it's okay it's not your fault you have to move on if somebody cheats on you
It's going to piss you off because all the time and effort you put into it that's a positive outlook on it is you have to thank them for not wasting more of your time and for them showing you who they are truly are and you don't want to be with the person like that anyway right so you have to thank them and move on love yourself your heart is only broken because you're allowing it to be broken you're the one that controls your heart nobody else you're the one that controls your happiness nobody else you're the one that controls your sadness nobody else we are programmed with the opposite of what we should be we are programmed to fall down and to stay down as long as we have to and it should not be that way because it is not that way when something happens especially in love and somebody does whatever they do it's not your fault they're the ones that's going to hurt for it not you you shouldn't have to hurt they're the one that did something wrong you need to say thank you and move on let them sit in the pain it was their deal let them deal with it you need to move on and be happy

There's no way in this world if somebody was to cheat that I was going out with if they were to cheat that's on them I'm not going to feel the pain for them I'm not going to pay any prices for them they did what they did to themselves I'm going to say thank you very much for giving me your time your knowledge and I'm going to go have fun I'm going to go try it again but I'm not taking their pain with me and I'm not letting it hold me back let them deal with it I love myself enough to be able to do this so the only caution that I have is to them if you f****** you f****** I'm out of here I'll give you everything I got until the day you start taking it for granted are you trying to manipulate or make me believe something that's not true because of what you're doing I will say see you later you deal with it and I'm still halfway decent looking have a good guy and I've never had a problem picking up on a girl as long as I'm straight up and honest with myself and with them you can make anything work so for anybody else that has a broken heart real life something you didn't do anything except forgive them love the only thing that you're doing is you're forgetting to love yourself more than the pain they just tried to put on you don't allow it suck it up move on all it does is prove how much love you have inside of you and when you know how much that is you're you're an asset to anybody's life when you don't allow somebody to do something wrong and then make you feel that pain for it f*** them a hug cecia I have a life to go live you deal with it cuz it's your lose not mine

[Summeroflove]

People should be cautious of relationships and it takes time to genuinely build that trust with someone. Some people make mistakes by trusting the wrong people too much and eventually learn what to look out for. Others unfortunately shut everyone out even those who do desire to love them.

I think people need to be aware that some people are incapable of building a genuine connection with another human being. They are too focused on materialistic things, social status, wanting this, that, or the other. So they end up using people, like sex is another big thing.

A lot of people end up sleeping around and it literally changes who a person is once they have slept around with so many people. It becomes more about getting off then it is finding love anymore. Sex means nothing to them anymore unless they’re doing something degenerate and gross.

[Chevy1_kb]

It's made me not want relationships again only relationship I want is one with Uma Thurman fuck everyone else I want Uma am happy loving her sexually and romantic a don't need anyone else just let bing her and my dildos and fucking my ex sometimes we are not together we don't love each other more I've told him no relationship with us again Uma makes me smile you just make me nervous and worry to much your difficult to build a relationship your to much of a goer as in fucks any women that moves or comments on his cock fuck that ok friends with benefits and being in deep laugh he's a dafty to be in a relationship with we get on better as friends he would make me overthinking to much a can't deal with that shit but we are horn dogs for each other and have a laugh watching some films have a laugh nothing more and some fun in bed am happy with my sweetheart Uma 💕💋

[jennifer_bloom]

My boyfriend is in the top 2% when it comes to his gentleness and kindness. There are many who meet physical and financial biometrics of desirability that are worthless villains who treat their ladies like trash.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, heartbreak—that uninvited guest who leaves a mess behind. Speaking of mess, sharing our experiences is my game here at GAG! After heartbreak, many become cautious, playing it safe is smart. Maybe we'll pay more attention to red flags or invest time in building trust before diving in headfirst. Falling in love again might take a bit longer, but it's all about being wiser, not colder. Keep that heart open, just with a few extra security measures 😉 Keep vibing and thriving!

[mobiusforniner]

Heartbreak presents someone with a fork in the road. Either wallow in despair and blame others, or take ownership, improve and move on

every heartbreak has taught me an important lesson- not of people, but of myself. I can attribute almost all of my life accomplishments to heartbreak. Buying a house. Getting back into many of my favorite hobbies. Learning to play several music instruments…. each case has defined a new me

needless to say, I’ve gotten my heart broken a LOT of times. And looking back, I don’t regret it one bit.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I think I'd be a lot more easy to cut out of the early stages of the relationship if I mostly got mind games.

I'd be more cautious about those romantic comments or those signs of interest. I thought I had it great once or twice, VERY briefly. One did some of the work in return, there was some reciprocation and I think anyone looking at her would think she was head over heels about me... She'd NEVER cheat, at least at THAT point, for sure. She was very devout (that doesn't mean you are perfect, but if you're devout, you're probably a lot less likely to cheat...) This was WHILE she was Schtupping practically anything with a heartbeat.

I hear the nice things on occasion... I don't know if I'd trust it. "You can trust me!" Suuuuure. Well, let's just wait and see.

The problem is, I'm pretty cautious anyway, so most would not want a guy who is even MORE cautious.

[magiusX26]

yes. i do nott participate in any way of the dating/partneting side of life
mind you its not only this reason nor just one type of heartbreak, seeing others done wrong and humanity (or lack there of) as s whole breaks my heart daily.

[electromagnetic]

After my ex, I never ignored a red flag. I’ve been married for years but that relationship almost ended me.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

More cautious? No...
More and more aware!

[DrPepper12]

No. Still same old me.

"To live is to dance with both the angels and the devils". - ME

[SolitarySolace]

Heartbreak turned me off from relationships, dating, etc entirely. Haven’t had a love interest in 8 years, feels like 10 🤷🏻‍♂️

[kaucky1]

They tends to heart broken or gushes blood from a hole skips beat variously bm bm _bm bm bm bm_ _bm bm bm bm _bm bm bm bm_ this worst screen seen it before ten screens longer I stay the more I get

[Anonymous]

Yes. I ONLY reciprocate effort now. That way when thing I inevitably crash and burn I can leave the relationship knowing she didn't get the better of me.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

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yea, and how insane the dating game became... I almost totally reclused from approaching women

[Jay-_-]

No I wouldn't blame my next woman for anything what I've done different was not be in a relationship 😂

[MisfitsLover92]

Oh yes, I'm much more particular with relationships now! I have been with some JERKS

[es20490446e]

Not assuming that someone is neither good or bad.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. I don't date anymore. I don't "approach" women.

[Slim57]

Yeah, any woman who acts flakey I cut off immediately, don't fall for them as fast, don't tolerate as much as I used to, way more picky, and never will try to make amends if we break up

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes I’m celibate and more vocal about my needs when dating

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. Why would I blame the next girl for what another might have done?

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes. Post divorce I am done with women.

[Anastasia06]

Makes me cautious. What to look for in a woman.

[Crazzyyworld]

Yes I don’t have sex without getting paid?

[ilkeerol28]

Heartbreak is a terrible and sad thing.