Do I have a right to be upset?

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So…there are a couple scenarios that have upset me, and I don’t know if I’m being overly sensitive.
1. My boyfriend came over and said hi and hugged everyone but ignored me. He loves me and my family, so I don't know why I feel hurt.
2. He invited my to our friends house to hangout one night, but forgot to mention that that they have a hot tub and everyone’s using it after. I didn’t bring one, and ended up sitting out while everyone (including my boyfriend) went out to use it for a few hours after dinner. I felt sad and alone.
Are these things worth being upset about and bringing up with him?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes you have a right to feel upset and you have a right to dump his ass as well , he clearly doesn’t value you or respect you , he just likes the convenience of you , you should of just jumped in the hot tub with your bra and panties , and if anyone said anything about it? just be like Moron over here didn’t tell me to bring a swim suit , Everyone would of laughed and he would look like a moron LOL

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

You always have a right to be upset... for whatever bothers you. We suggest having a calm talk with your boyfriend about this. Let him know how you feel, and let him know you hope it won't happen again.

itsannalee · Accepted Answer

Yes i got you, you have right to be upset. It’s not about the Hot tub, but the feel being ignored at that time.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Yes, it's completely valid to feel hurt and disappointed in both scenarios.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Navigating through feelings of hurt can be tricky, but it's important to recognize them! If something gets to you, it's worth addressing. Ignoring you during greetings and letting you sit out on the hot tub fun could be seen as red flags that need a bit of communication TLC. It's not just about the actions, but how they make you feel. Sharing your feelings helps him understand where you're coming from and can bring you closer. So, speak up, lovebird, and let those emotions out! 💬❤️

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Bring it up to him. 😊

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Yeah he doesn't like u. And u know that

Anonymous · Answer

Those are worth mentioning

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Maybe he feels all you do is show up.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yeah you do.

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