Do I have the right to be upset?

[Anonymous]

do i have the right to be upset
i got into a major car accident (car is totally wrecked) and it was scary and im in shocked but not hurt. My boyfriend is in utah and training and gets home Friday and he has plans with his friends on Saturday. I thought since I've gone through this he would change his plans and visit me but he said he would come next weekend and spend time with me. Im a little hurt.

[AviatorTom]

You always have a right to be upset. He will spend time with you, just a week later. He already had plans and probably feels it would be wrong to break them. I'm sure he feels good that you are not hurt.

[Asker]

i guess it would be different if i got hurt

[Anonymous]

A major car accident? That would imply you were hurt and rushed to hospital but you weren't.

[Asker]

so i shouldn’t expect him to drop plans?