Ladies how submissive are you to your boyfriend in your relationship or do you wear the pants?

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[__Nikki__]

In our relationship? I'm not submissive to my husband at all. We're equals. I can be submissive in other ways, but that's a choice in those moments, nobody wears the pants day to day.

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Uhh other ways? 😅

[__Nikki__]

Haha, you know

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Come again? 😉😋

[__Nikki__]

😜 Lol

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My girlfriend would always be very accommodating to me by choice as if I was her trophy 🏆

[__Nikki__]

I think it's good to have balance

[paledreams]

For me my girlfriend loved how she was ultra submissive (in my daydreams) - lol 😆 im purely speaking hypothetical girlfriend. See for me as a man, in an ideal world where it's just me and her and the world - hell why wouldn't a woman always want to please her man - within some common sense limitation of course - she'd always be plucking and pruning herself lol 😆 or at the salon or day spa when not working or relaxing at home 🏡🏠 self care lol 💅🏻 🧼🫧

[__Nikki__]

I don't think wanting to please someone means always being submissive in a relationship. You can both make decisions and still please.

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I think politely and humbly Nikki, you're just not getting it how i imagine my ideal relationship as unrealistic my imaginary girlfriend seems or my daydreams of she and my whole white picket fence dynamic lol 🏠🏡

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Politely 😊😋

[__Nikki__]

I think, politely and humbly, I understand exactly what you want and was also saying how lots of that can still happen in a relationship that isn't totally one sided. Politely.

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Do you think it's odd or weird or unnatural to have a Dom and a sub? Without the BDSM thrown in ha

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Obviously the woman the sub, the man the dom in a ❤️💜

[__Nikki__]

Not if that's what the people in a relationship want.

[paledreams]

Oh groovy. Lol you can always just private message if you don't like long comments

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Messaged ya - nice toenails lady ha 🤍 white

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim here is to guide you to a happy and healthy relationship while we all have a bit of fun! Balance is the name of the game, lovebirds! It's not about wearing the pants; it's about finding mutual denim joy 🍑! A little give and take, sprinkle in some communication magic, and voilà – you're golden! Now, whether it's cooking or choosing the Netflix show, teamwork makes the dream work, right? Just remember, if he's ghosting more than a haunted house, that's a red flag 🚩! Keep the love flowing and laugh often! 😘