Who is better at cheating in a relationship, men or women?

[foxsquirrell]

Good at cheating in a relationship means cheating without your partner knowing you have cheated.

Men

Women

[Finchie40]

Women are , they are better at keeping it a secret compared to men , I have slept with married women a handful of times that told me she was single or divorced when really she wasn’t. I dated a married women for 6 months that kept the fact that she was married a secret from me , her husband traveled a lot for work , so she was able to play me for as long as she did without me knowing , The sex was amazing , not going to lie and she treated me like Gold , but her husband eventually caught on to what she was doing and he came knocking on my door to confront me , I was dumbfounded and in complete shock that she was married , I told her husband the truth that I had no clue she was and told him everything, I did feel bad for the guy , because I could see how hurt and devastated he was that she was doing that to him behind his back. So I told him everything and advised him to leave her ass. But he didn’t’ which blew my mind even more. I haven’t seen or heard from her since , so for all I know she might be buried in the ground somewhere. I do miss her at times because she treated me like Gold and rocked my world in the bedroom , if she left her husband for me , I probably would of stayed with her until she decided to cheat on me lol

[Anonymous]

Women get more suitors, more DM’s on social media, more looks on the streets, at work and I’ve learned in life if a girl or woman even has one of these in her life she’s most likely going to cheat

1) Came from a bad upbringing, absent father whether thats actually absent where he ran away from the marriage or he’s in the picture and doesn’t know how to be a good father. That will shape her mind how men and guys are into a negative perception.

2) Her friends— social circles play a big role in life and if her “friends” are the ones who sleep around, endorse cheating, female manipulation tactics. She’s going to pick up on that and assume it’s fine. It’s not healthy.

3) If she’s dealt with bad dudes in the past where they have broken her heart, eventually she’ll become cold, distant and if some good guy enters her life I think she’ll most likely string him along and break his heart and not care because she views that as pay back or that, that guy will eventually hurt her.

All these things attribute why women and girls cheat more. Also add that feminism is a toxic ideology, movies/magazines promote women and girls to act disrespectful, take no accountability, to celebrate being fat instead of saying “you’re fat lose weight”, women and girls get bored more easily. There’s a stigma that males have dicks so we think with our dicks shouldn’t be labelled that way while females are completely innocent. Women and girls want to dress half naked and get looks, it increases her self esteem and “value” but eventually those “pretty” girls will eventually hate herself because she’s only hurting herself by doing that.

[Anonymous]

I’ve had a 9 year affair and my husband doesn’t suspect a thing; my affair partner is married and also hasn’t been “caught” but he wife is constantly accusing him of stuff he’s actually doing, she just lacks the proof. So I’d say woman are better at hiding it; and also at sniffing it out. My husband is a terrible cheat, men are good for nothing, they can’t even cheat right 🤣

[foxsquirrell]

No no, men are good at everything except the one good thing you are good at... cheating. :)

[pass_the_celery98]

I wouldn't cheat, but if a guy is committed, loyal, loving and caring, works hard to maintain and uphold the household by helping, that guy is a gem. There are women out there who will not appreciate that and may cheat to get a reaction. I was moping last year because this girl that added me on IG and gave all these hints of "liking" me showed her true colours 8 months later and I called her out like yo where is this going I don't want to waste my time. This girl told me that she encouraged her female friends to cheat on their partners. 3 months after she removed me from her life, I found out last February (2024) that she got married. Obviously there was a dude in the picture, not sure why she was meeting up for dates as late as October. I am very careful now around women, no offence but I don't trust y'all and I don't expect you to care since you don't know me and I don't know you. But women or girls who get back at a cheater by sleeping with his buddy or getting married quickly isn't some big win, it only hides her immaturity because I believe whatever goes around comes around. Like I said, I wouldn't cheat, if I was in a relationship with a young woman and she wasn't a good girlfriend or wife, I would just tell her its best to end things and we go our separate ways - she can pursue what she wants and I can as well, instead of me trying to please her and not respecting myself that I don't need her in my life and her disrespect, so ill move on.

[Anonymous]

Men always getting caught so I gotta say women are more sneaky about it

[foxsquirrell]

lol..

[pass_the_celery98]

Women and girls aren't "sneaky" it's just that guys are oblivious, I have 3 older sisters and most of my family are women so I picked up on the the mannerisms and how women and girls convey things. It's easy for me to detect she's cheating -- if she's distant, becomes hot and cold, doesn't call or show that cheerfulness to talk to me... I'll know she's cheating and I would confront her, end it and move on. What I just mentioned is just analyzing her own actions through non-communication. That whole nonsense of "she's busy with work" give me a break unless she's the president of the United States or is in the military deployed overseas where the time zones are different she's not that busy. Majority of people in this world have a smart phone and see text message notifications appear on her phone. I work 2 jobs and do grad school, I will eventually get back to everyone who messages within a few hours at most.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there, spicy love detective! Let's dive right in, shall we? 😉 The sneaky art of cheating is a skill neither gender should be too proud of, but hey, let's be real: anyone can be a smooth operator if they've got the dedication, right? Cheating isn't about gender; it's about opportunity, secrecy, and a blatant disregard for trust. Keep those love goggles on and watch out for those red flags! 💔🕵️‍♂️🔥

[Unit1]

Number 1) Top 10% of men

Number 2) Women

And that's about it!

The remaining men are the reason Pornhub is among the top 20 most visited websites on the internet.

[Anonymous]

They say men are better at compartmentalisation, women are better at flying under the radar and at justifying it to themselves.

[foxsquirrell]

I think what they say is right.

[Fireguy17]

at least that is what my ex-wife and an ex-girlfriend thought, until I found out and left them.
I haven't so I do not know if I would have been good at it.

[foxsquirrell]

lol how did you find out?

[Fireguy17]

I walked in on my ex-wife when she was with him.
Now it is kind of funny, he was trying to back into the closet while he tried to pull up his pants.
I suspected something for a while but came home early.
She asked me what I was doing home, and I said I used to live here as I left.
He was married too, so both of their lives went down the crapper, and they never did end up with each other. You have to just love Karma!
The ex-girlfriend was also pretty easy, I kept catching her in lies, so it was not hard to figure out what was going on.

[HelpfulWoman]

oh god, another question to make incels cream as they click the women button aggressively.
as always with these, its very individual

[foxsquirrell]

What the f... has incels got to do with this? You mean to say that guys who score don't ask such questions?

[HelpfulWoman]

no you dippit. asking on gag, you will get incels wanking themselves off while they click and blame females.

[foxsquirrell]

Either I don't know incels well enough or you are exaggerating beyond believe.

[HelpfulWoman]

it's you not knowing them well enough and the whole you owning a penis means you don't see how bad they can get. privilege right there XD

[Anonymous]

Women are experts at getting away with things. If we don't want you to know, you won't. It's just that a vast, vast majority of the time, we want you to know. For one reason or another.

[foxsquirrell]

You bitches

[Opinion Owner]

Every girl knows to dress sexy to attract other guys, then dress boring when you go fuck them.

[foxsquirrell]

How is this relevant?

[Opinion Owner]

Dressing boring before the act relieves suspicion. If we dressed sexy on our 1.5 hour grocery run, where we come back with barely anything, it would be obvious.

And when we dress sexy at unsuspicious times, to attract guys, we can just pretend it's for ourselves, and no new suspicions will come up there either.

[foxsquirrell]

Ahh ok got it. Yeah as I learned from experience, you are not worth to be taken very seriously. Its probably best to treat you like whores.

[Opinion Owner]

You know not all women do this, right? I'm being a bit hyperbolic. My friends that did this are no longer my friends.

[foxsquirrell]

Let me be generous with you at least for argument's sake, and grant you that not all women do this. In that case the trouble is that you never know who is who! In other words you might think you found a girl who you can trust and then you get a reality check, and it will feel like you got hit by a lance in your heart.
So as I said, its best not to take you very seriously. Ever!

[genericname85]

i mean i guess women just by virtue of men not being all that neurotic about it in general. so women have it easier getting away with it.

[foxsquirrell]

lolll I think you're right!

[genericname85]

also they have this gaslighting trick of calling it "an affair", not cheating xD as if that was any more classy than cheating.

[foxsquirrell]

loll yeah you are right! There is a lot of people who try to use alternative expressions to water down their guilt! Guilt, responsibility, incompetence, etc.

[genericname85]

yeah responsibility is not a womans trong suit i feel like.

[foxsquirrell]

Yeah, they love to deflect it away from them and pass it on to you. It just feels so much better for them. Although to be honest I think even men do it. It's just that I think that women tend to do it much more, and with more subtlety.

[genericname85]

Yeah that's exactly what I think

[Garud]

Women try to white wash their past whenever they meet a new man

[Anonymous]

Good question. I feel like when men are guilty of something they give themselves away by deflecting and accusing their partner of doing something.

[foxsquirrell]

lol..

[serious_miss419]

Is this seriously what people are thinking about these days? Good grief

[foxsquirrell]

Yes.

[KrakenAttackin]

Women are masters at cheating with complicity by their other girlfriend's.

[justabuddy]

Men get caught sooner, while woman typically gets caught later when there is more to lose.

[kinkynicci]

Women for sure. Men are always caught.

[paledreams]

Women "I'm just out shopping" 😋😄😋😄

[paledreams]

"I'm just at the ladies night out" 😂😂😂

[Crazzyyworld]

Women keep the secret and men brag about it

[Anonymous]

Women are generally more sneaky

[Anonymous]

Women lol.

We get caught far less.

[foxsquirrell]

traitors. snakes.

[exitseven]

I think it is guys.