Why do some people ask, “why do you love me?”?

[Jania1809]

Do you think you need a reason to love someone?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I used to get asked this a lot.

It was right before she was going to cheat.

She's gone now.

Keep in mind she was crafty, was trying to keep it a secret... something I wouldn't find out about. But I'm like a detective and memorizer of patterns rolled into one person... certain patterns that is. I have friends here online that can recognize patterns that I don't see. But face to face interactions... I'll figure you out.

So back to your question... It's because they're debating on you being worth not stepping out on. Simply put.

[ohsheeT]

Well I mean I would hope that there would be a reason there would have to be a reason and probably more than one because love is pretty deep Love is crazy Love is fun love is happiness love is beautiful so I mean I for me anyway I would be able to answer that question.

But after I was a smart-ass first with a smile on my face but then I would tell the person exactly why I love love

[Screenwriter]

They're fishing for compliments and validation. If they don't know, maybe they don't feel worthy of love, which is sad.

[Flower7]

Probably because they don’t love the person back. Or at least not as strongly.

[AI Opinion]

Welcome to the love-lab, where chemistry happens without logical reason! 😊 Falling in love is a magical concoction of emotions, personality clashes, and sometimes—let's admit—sheer attraction! Often, there's no need to explain why because love doesn't ask for practicality. But when asked, maybe express what about them makes your heart skip a beat. Love is just a wild ride, and that's perfectly okay! 💖

[Finchie40]

Because they are insecure and they don’t love themselves , so they are seeking reassurance as to why you are choosing to love them because they never really experienced someone loving them before , they have low self esteem about themselves and feel like they don’t deserve to be loved , they have a hard time trusting their partner

[Cinar3434]

Yes, there is no love without a reason because love is selfishness in itself. The simplest reason is that you are in love with him because he makes you feel good. The other main reasons are his protective character, because he resembles your father, because he is just romantic, because he is trustworthy, because he looks good and you think he suits you. In conclusion, there is no love without a reason.

[Snowbunnyalex]

In my experience, insecurity. They view themselves as undeserving of love due to poor self esteem therefore they require justification for why someone else could love them.

These people will typically hurt you. They need to do a lot of growing and learn to love themselves before they can even think about loving someone else.

[Iron_Man]

How many people do you actually love? Sometimes it could be just puppy love not Genuine True love especially if they’re strangers or just guys that you met

[Jania1809]

I mean my boyfriend. When he said i love you and i said it back. He asked “why do you love me?”.

[Iron_Man]

Well speak from the heart and tell him the truth

[molonski2]

Ohhh , I hate that question , and had it said so many times , man it puts me off , I can't really answer because their question makes no sense.

[katiesmuff]

I think you HAVE a reason to love someone sincerely!

[Abbycado]

Of course you need a reason to love someone.

[HighValue]

They probably want reasons so they know it is real because many people just say it because it is expected, but they don't actually feel that way.

[Potteplante]

Of course there are reasons for why you love someone.

[CuriousMoonFox]

To learn whether you would stop loving them should the reason ever disappear.

[ChiTown33]

Your actions probably don't add up to your boyfriend.

[Staximus]

They can't accept themselves so they wonder why others can

[Amndwu]

insecurities' and past relationships do that to people or family trauma

[jessica_16]

Not everyone can just love...

[paledreams]

Or does she just love my dashing good looks 👀😋😈

[CarolinaGirl5]

Well.. why do you love him?

[Sofie01]

Probably cause they don't love themselves.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

They probably don't love *themself*.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah you do

[Crazzyyworld]

Because u r soooo cuttee